confuse

[Wild Flower]

I am confuse. A guy I know for about 3 or 4 months now seem to be flirting with me everytime I see him. He would occasionally hug me, touch my shoulder, or even touch my face. Today he was upset I wouldnt be working with him, and he said "when they see youre so pretty that they would want your kids they will get you to work back here."

I have no problem with him and I like him alot. I am just afraid he isnt gay or something, since he is an odd case.

I wouldnt mind if he was my boyfriend but the time is getting close before I depart (2 months). He keeps inviting me and seems unashame to treat me special.

Do you think hes open to dating me??

[Dena]

It's a case of where your boundaries are. If you are comfortable with how he treats you then it's a possible relationship. If he is over aggressive and will not take no for an answer, then it's sexual assault. As a woman, you not only are changing gender roles but you are changing from an aggressor to a possible victim.

[tgirlamg]

Hi WIld Flower

It certainly sounds like he is open to it! If you proceed... do so with eyes wide open... Be respectful and true to yourself and what you would want out of a relationship. Be careful but be also open to possibilities as well.... Life is for living!!!

Take Care,

Ashley

[Heather14]

Certainly sound like he is interested. Why not go out to dinner but set your boundaries and see where it goes. If he is just a really good friend then at least you will have dinner with someone you enjoy.

Heather

[Wild Flower]

Certainly sound like he is interested. Why not go out to dinner but set your boundaries and see where it goes. If he is just a really good friend then at least you will have dinner with someone you enjoy.

Heather

Thanks.

Unfortunately. I have little boundaries since I know hes disease free if that was a concern. Our jobs guarantee our hiv statuses.

He invited me to the movies tonight. And a friend happen to tag along as we were walking to the theater. Yet, he mainly focus on me and told me he wants to maintain contact with me after we seperate due to the work.

He walk me home pretty much and I am afraid of the whole situation of being gay. But I am willing to have him as my boyfriend because he cares about me a lot and he treats me like a girl (even if hes not aware of it).

He is going to invite me to meet again with him again tomorrow and the clock is running out (2 months).

He hasnt directly told me hes gay or bisexual but I feel that he is or maybe hes just attracted to me regardless of orientation.

I need an ice breaker at this point because I confirm hes into me... But just afraid.

[Wild Flower]

Today after not seeing me for two days... He ran up to me and hug me saying "i miss you."  and invited me to hang out with him tonight. I feel like hes almost on boyfriend borderline.... Were going to see the movies tomorrow exciting.

I had the butterfly feeling for a good 30 minutes.

[Heather14]

This sounds so exciting! Lucky girl...have fun!

Heather