transgender questioning. help wanted.

[xolovestephi]

Hey, I am a 17 year old boy who is currently feelin deprrssed because my girly feminine side is becoming more prominent. I have always felt that I was more intouch with feminine attributes than male ones, I have recently tried to accept this side of me and I even painted my toe nails which was a dream come true. Ive talked to my sister about it and she was okay with it, However I feel my parents arent so on board. I am feeling the woman inside me grow everyday and I am getting thoughts of wanting to be a woman. When i have sexual thoughts I have always pictured myself as the girl. I want to maybe start wearing panties and bras but idk. I am scared about this whole thing. I know i wouldve rather been born a woman but now that I wasent i still have a strong urge to be feminine and idk if i can. Does anyone have any suggestions that could maybe help me?
Thanks,
Raven.

[Dena]

Welcome to Susan's Place. The first steps are scary and difficult. The one advantage you have is many places consider a person an adult at age 18. Not knowing your location, It's possible you could receive some therapy or other treatment that would help you on your journey. It's possible for you to become a woman and starting young makes the process easer. If you need a more knowledge so you can discuss this with your parents, we are willing to provide it. Just let us know know what you need.

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[Jacqueline]

I would highly encourage you to try to get into therapy. It helps a lot. There are so many options now as far as being trans and how far you want to go.

I am with Dena on the touch base with your parents. They may just need some perspective and education. In the mean time if they can approve the therapy, that would be great. You could also try through your school counselors/therapists(depending on your school and state).

Good luck.

With warmth,

Joanna

[KellyTG]

Joanna50 has summed it up pretty well. Professional help is always the best especially at your age or any age for all of us. I think your school counselor could get you in touch with the proper professionals in your area.

Good luck with whatever decision you make!


KellyTG

[LizK]

AS the other two Ladies have suggested therapy is a good way to start. Maybe a trusted friend, do you have someone older in your family you can trust with this?

Now is the time to be working out and getting help. Try not to put yourself through years of anguish and get some help to clarify what it is you want or need to do.

Take Care

Liz