Started by Haradonia, August 04, 2016, 08:02:44 AM
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Quote from: Devlyn Marie on August 04, 2016, 08:02:28 PM"I'm transgender. If that hasn't stopped you in your tracks, feel free to write."That's the first line from my OKCupid profile. I feel it's much better to put it right out there and avoid any misunderstandings down the road. I usually reply to any contact by asking if they've read my profile. Sometimes they go away after that. I met the man I'm dating on Craigslist, though. I find you need a thicker skin to use that site, but it gets a lot of traffic. And I found a keeper there! Hugs, Devlyn
Quote from: tgirlamc on August 06, 2016, 07:22:03 PMHi Haradonia,Very early into my transition, I knew I wanted to try going out with a guy after a lifetime of relationships with women. I signed up on several of the TG/CD specific dating sites and was quite surprised with the amount of responses I received. As you can imagine... Much of it was a little crude and not all that welcome but, amongst all of it, I found a few that that were nice!!!... Not only secure with who they were, but secure with the attraction they felt to me as an "unconventional woman." They approached me in a respectful manner, shared themselves honestly through what they wrote me and I did the same. There was one in particular with whom I seemed to share a lot of common ground and lived just two hours north... We met in person and all has gone well since... He is a wonderful supportive man who has been with me through the whole process of facial procedures, GRS etc. We got a house together over a year ago and last December he proposed to me... We are planning a September wedding.My story, I believe, is likely quite outside the norm... I know it can be a tough world for us on all fronts but especially out there on the dating scene....I am writing this because I want it out there that sometimes it works out!!!.. And...in ways you never saw coming!!!... You need to move into things with confidence in who you are and knowing you have a place in this world just like everyone else. Move ahead with respect for yourself, for others and with hope!!!When I decided to transition, I knew I had to so that I could live MY life but I suspected my decision was also going to lead down a very sad and lonely path. Happily, I was wrong!!!One interesting aspect of all this as the way my attraction morphed... I found as transition progressed that my attraction to females melted away... When I looked at a woman who I might have previously been attracted to, I found myself experiencing mostly just envy...("wish I had her hair, skin, eyes etc...) A transwoman friend put forward a theory that resonated with me immediately... That what I had always thought was a healthy attraction to women was on some level, hero worship... As I thought about the greatest relationships of my life... I think she was right...on some level, I wanted to be those women!... Onward we all go!!!Take Care,AshleyHi Ashley, Some of your transition dating experiences match mine. As a teeneager I only had a boyfriend for sex for 2 years way before I transitioned, but then much later dated women sexually.Since becoming Jennifer full-time I've only dated sexually ONE cis lesbian girl. We are still friends it was a great relationship but we both moved.Now I date lovely MEN. My body is stunningly feminine beautiful now, and it is MEN who want me badly. I have no problem turning online dates into real world sexual dates. I had sex as beautiful Jennifer with about 40 men in 2015.Like you, as my body changed who was attracted to me changed drastically. Women aren't attracted to me sexually anymore, but as good friends.MEN badly want intimacy with me. Only have been intimate with 1 man in 2016 though.This will likely change next weekend A nice man online last night offered to pay all of my airfare and hotel expenses later this week, so I can visit him over next weekend or the folowing weekend, on a long domestic flight in the country I currently live in.Muahhh ! I feel sure we will "get it on" in bed all next weekend or the weekend after.So, let's see if he indeed sends me domestic airfare money this week. Our hotel he will pay for after I arrive in his city.It was fun flirting with him last night on Webcam. He cannot resists my feminine charms.FUN to be sexy beautiful Jennifer !Have fun with YOUR dates with lovely men !!!Hugs,Jennifer xx
Quote from: tgirlamc on August 07, 2016, 03:32:45 PMEnjoy Jennifer!!!... No more dating scene for me!... We became engaged last December and are getting married next month!!!Take Care,Ashley
Quote from: tgirlamc on August 06, 2016, 07:22:03 PMOne interesting aspect of all this as the way my attraction morphed... I found as transition progressed that my attraction to females melted away... When I looked at a woman who I might have previously been attracted to, I found myself experiencing mostly just envy...("wish I had her hair, skin, eyes etc...) A transwoman friend put forward a theory that resonated with me immediately... That what I had always thought was a healthy attraction to women was on some level, hero worship... As I thought about the greatest relationships of my life... I think she was right...on some level, I wanted to be those women!... Onward we all go!!!Take Care,Ashley
Quote from: tgirlamc on August 08, 2016, 09:35:02 AMHi Formrerly-Me!Thanks for posting you kind words...I am happy you found some value in my words. Transition, for me, was full of a lot of self revelations about my past... How the GD had colored so much more of my life, my decisions, relationships etc. than I had ever realized! Self exploration... The last frontier!Take Care,Ashley
Quote from: tgirlamc on August 07, 2016, 11:06:02 PMThank you both so much for the well wishes!!!! I nailed the dress a couple weeks ago but still working on shoes!!! ... Here's the dress!!!...
