ups and downs;family relations worsens

[akshita]

hi there,

i m transitionaning and completed 7 months of full time transition and 1 yesr of HRT --good part
family relation worsened--bad

today i called my father for whereabout ,i though they will feel better that i m caring for them but things gone oppostite ways

the almost shouted at me--what tone u r talking (like a girl),hang up and disconnected. i got phone call from my mother that he got anxious and feeling ill.

i flet like i m a dog they are shouting at.although i have not bad feelins about them bcoz they are my parents and i wanted them to feel i m always there where i be their son or dauther but things hav'nt got fair enough. i m feeling distresses and m still confused that thir is still anger inside them even after an year .


on the opposite my old collegues in old caompny and HR accepted my pos and is very friendly and affctionate to me. i m just a little confused my blood relatived are bllod thirsty of me and the ones that don'nt know me well are supporting well.i also got two tran-female friends [a great feeling].just confused and sad ,did i commited tto wrong according to them??

hugs

[Rachel_Christina]

Its mostly just deprooted hate or lack of knowledge in the situation, or maybe Religion.
It is very hard to get passed these things for some unfortuneatly :/
You can't worry about it, just be happy and enjoy being you.
They hopefully will come round, may take years though :l
Goodluck!

[Sno]

Sweetie, you have a support network, just not quite where you thought it was going to be.

Folk like to hold onto hopes and dreams, however ill-founded and often contrary to evidence before them. They have no control over this situation, no say in the outcome and no way to undo what mistakes they believe they have made - rightly or wrongly.

You have shown extraordinary bravery in trying to keep the lines of communication open, I hope that you will have the courage and drive to continue.

Sno.