let me introduce myself. i am straight women and i would like some advice on how to date a transgender guy (F2M).
Let me explain my story so you might get a clearer picture of my situation.
I recently join a new company and its been 6months now. Because of the nature of my job i have to deal with vendors. One particular
vendor is where i met A. A was nice and gentle guy, i kind of like him and thought he is really cute!. My work collegues use to make
fun of me as i was always happy to see him when we have functions. Me and A used to text each other on work purpose. Sometimes, we also
text about simple things like what are the plans for the weekend so on. My likeness for A begin to grow and when ever we had function i would
engage their service. And then suddenly he stop replying my text and started sending some one else to manage our functions. i was upset at this and my
collegues hinted that maybe he does not see me romantically just professionally.
One collegue pointed out that A might be a transgender. i was angry with them as i could not believe it. This collegue then when to find out and then told me that it is indeed true.
i was really shocked by this news! Took me some time to recover. Then i saw him again, and immediately i felt happy again that a huge burden that been lifted off my chest. That day i tot that
it didn't matter that he was a transgender guy as i enjoyed his company. Then one day, A's work collegue mentioned in passing that A was on leave and unable to come as he is visiting his partner.
i was really sad!...and my thinking was that am i that unattractive that A does not see me that way....so basically i am not sure what to do and need help.
