Hi, Joan!
I'm also 62, out to immediate family, and probably out in the world as myself about 1/3 of the time now. I figured out my true nature over 30 years ago, and tried to repress it for my family. Bad idea. I wound up coming out to them about 6 months ago, started HRT and electrolysis, and am learning how to be myself. Family hasn't been easy, for most of us. I had to move forward, for my own safety and state of mind, though.
This is a wonderful site to learn from, and get your questions answered. Everyone here is friendly and helpful, and remarkably free from the judgemental stuff I've seen elsewhere. Susan and the staff keep this a safe place for us.
One of the moderators will likely be along shortly to give you some tips and useful links. I just wanted to say "Hi!"
- Michelle