I didn't know where to post this exactly, I'm new here, hope I did it right.
The person I talk about:
He is 17 and a male at the moment, but I am going to refer to them as she and her and so forth,
Because she wants to be female, and I'm asking here on her behalf.
She lives in Germany for now.
Me:
I am 18 and a male, I live in Switzerland.
The question :
I'm in a long-distance relationship with her, as stated above, she wants to be female.
I am asking for her, because she is too shy to do it herself.
It's about everything, from how she will look,
over how it will feel after the transition and anything related to it.
I did do my research, but I would like for anyone to share their experiences with us.
About the long distance part,
I think that's something we can talk about with our parents,
I don't know what we will have to do exactly, because we are in different countries,
but we will work it out.
She is unsure of pretty much anything at the moment,
and hopes on any kind of proof that she will be able to be the sexy girl she wants to be.
We will talk a lot about it, and whatever Sex she will end up with, I will be there for her,
and I will still want our plans of living together to come true.
I will give my best to make it true.
I think it's called pansexual if it's about the person, not about their Sex, right?
If yes, maybe I am just that, but this is about her, not about me.
Some story:
We met through the Internet one day, purely through pc games.
we learned more about each other as time went.
We started to talk about anything, trusted each other, and started to like one another more.
Here parents divorced, and don't even want to meet each other anymore.
She lives with her father, who is not really helpful, social, or nice to be honest.
Her mother is helpful and nice though, we told her about us and her plans, and I'm sure she will help us if needed.
Mine weren't married, but after they went apart they still live in the same town and talk to each other like normal people.
My parents are very understanding and helpful, I told them already, so we can count on them.
Today, we know and love each other.
We met twice so far, but she would rather wait until post op for me to see her again,
Just so I don't remember how she looked before.
I think it's sweet, but I still think it would be better if we get together beforehand.
I want to be able to help her with everything, and I want to really be there for her.
Also, she's getting sick of her father, being as mean as he is.
We didn't tell him anything about it, as he wouldn't approve at all.
This is a long text, props to anyone who reads all of it
Thank you in advance for anything you can tell us
And have a nice day
