Well, I sort of suspected this one was coming.
My ex-wife (not finalized yet) just had cataract surgery, and my youngest daughter, living with her, is helping out. I called and texted her when the surgery was going on to see what was happening. Eventually I got a terse text reply, "She's fine."
I thanked her via text and asked if they were still at the hospital or at home. No reply.
Later I texted "I was sort of wondering why I get no response most of the time, and when I do it is very terse. I gather there is some sort of subtext here."
I pretty much got blasted with her feeling overwhelmed, upset about the divorce, and that since I don't live there any more it is really none of my business, and I can't be upset as I don't live there any more. Sort of a rant at me, again. She finished by telling me she wouldn't respond any more and would reach out when she's ready.
I found out through my mother-in-law that my daughter only met with me there because her therapist had insisted on it.
She's pretty tight-wound right now, and I just hope that the passage of time will help her heal a bit. She's pretty tight with my ex, what with living there and all, and there is both shared animosity and considerable blame for me that can't be dealt with rationally.
I did talk with my older daughter last night for about a half hour, and we got along very well. She's been out of the family home for about 12 years, though. She filled me in on my ex-wife's status, doing fine and healing up.
I e-mailed back and forth with my son, out and living on his own for 14 years now, and I'll be flying to his town in about a month and a half for a weekend visit. (He has stayed overnight here a couple times.)
So, not everything is all rosy in RLE-town. Still, I have more to be happy about than not.
Today I worked some on my other hobby, amateur radio. I prepped about 100 assorted examinations for our next class and testing session in March, which took quite a while, and got my shortwave station back on the air, assembling a Frankenstein's Monster of a compact antenna (ham-stick and counterpoise on a 2nd floor balcony), and managed to work a station in Wyoming on the 40M band.
Yes, it is a useful distraction and keeps me from running my head in circles about my ex-wife and daughter.
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