And even more stuff has happened...
The dinner and meetup was fun, as always. This one was an anniversary party for the social support group. I've been active in it maybe 7 months, but the group has been running for 26 years now. The founder and still the organizer of this group is pretty amazing. The membership is a really nice crowd, from all over the femme transgender spectrum. It is pretty neat to see the way everyone presents at the meetups. Yes, there's some over-the-top, and some 'underachievers', but that is all part of the package.
Today, I had my FFS consult with
Dr. Klineberger. He wanted to know if I was familiar with what was available, so we chatted, and I emphasized that while understanding the individual procedures, I had trouble imagining the integrated result, and would be trusting him in the details and approach to take. My goal is simply to pass without doing that 25 minute makeup drill. I want to be able to just walk out of the apartment and not get 'Sir'ed. (As happened on my walk to the appointmentment.
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So, we went down the list from, er, top to bottom. There are a number of procedures recommended, some medically necessary, and a few cosmetic ones that I would love to have done and will be happy to cover out of pocket. Here's my list, as summarized by me, so I may have dropped some details and items.
Medically necessary treatments:
Type 3 forehead revision with incision high on the head, above what should be my hairline.
Raise eyebrows and reduce orbital bone
Dorsal reduction and slight rotation of the nose
Lip lift
Jawline reduction done through the mouth
Tracheal shave with incision just under the chin, and laryngeal camera used to verify that the vocal fold attachment point is not damaged.
Cosmetic treatment (not covered by insurance)
Lower facelift
Upper blepharoplasty on right eye
Filler below eyes to reduce groove along nose
The blepharoplasty can be done with the forehead revision. The filler is an office procedure, no big deal. The lower facelift would be done well after FFS, once swelling and residual anesthesia effects are gone (6 months?) and would be combined with the lip lift so the Kaiser surgery can be used rather than a private clinic. (One insured procedure is needed to use the Kaiser facilities!)
I'll be getting a CT scan of my head in the next few days, to be used in planning.
This is going to be an interesting experience...