Quote from: Menoimagination on November 10, 2016, 04:06:49 PM
Like has been said you can't do much about the pitch, but sounding like a valley girl is characterised by the inflection so your issue is that you're uptalking too much. So talking more monotonous might help.
To the baritone lady: hey embrace your voice and sing with your beautiful baritone voice. I know since cis women who have really really really deep voices and they mostly just get compliments on it and people are just impressed. Also it is a real asset in for example an all women choir/group/quartet...
Hey, thanks- I appreciate the encouragement. I do indeed have a cis friend who sings the blues and she can go pretty deep and it sounds incredibly beautiful. She once commented how it was a revelation to her the first time she stopped an entire room with her voice (I believe at the time she was singing in a pub, full of rowdy Brits, so double hard to make them shut up and listen). I hear her sing and I know it must be very rewarding to be able to sound like that.
The problem is my voice sounds manly if I sing low- it's the polar opposite of a falsetto, I guess. Somehow, cis women singing low sound very feminine. I don't quite have the knack for that. I'd have to seriously work at it to get my male voice sound like a female singer's.
But, really, thank you for the encouraging words, that's really lovely. I might give it a try, OK?

Edit: Just listened to some of your stuff. Very nice and yeah, that's the kind of thing I mean- like in I Can't Help Falling In Love...? I sound
that manly when I try to sing in a low voice X)