All the times when I pretended

[SammyGirl]

I keep playing through various scenarios of guys accusing me of wanting to play for the other team,  but the only response I would have to that statement.  Would be that I have been playing for the other team for far too long and its time that I cross the game line and stand with the other girls.

[Raell]

Congratulations on finally deciding to allow yourself to be yourself!

Yes, much of what people call "male" or "female" colors or clothes are only societal constructs, unique to a particular location and time.

Even now, in Thailand, pink is worn by both genders. Males often wear robes or wrap-around "skirts."
Men wear jewelry and often have long hair.

I like sports, but not necessarily the "official" sports. I love a good pick up game anywhere, even between children. I will bet on a fight between bugs. I like to watch "cow fights" on Thai TV. I used to race other horses (didn't use a saddle or bridle) on both of my horses when I was growing up as a kid in Haiti.

I'd bet pieces of sugar cane or mangoes, but I never lost, and the other person never paid up, instead blaming his loss on the sun being in his eyes, I got a head start, he wasn't ready, etc., even if I was sitting under a mango tree at the finish line with my horse grazing nearby by the time my competitor arrived.
But it was all part of the fun!