Dena, I don't understand why you've mentioned TOS 5, 9, 10 and 15. You've been very kind with me, and I would never be aggresive with other people, because that's not my way of being. I think each person is unique and it's ok to be different. So I don't understand why you've mentioned TOS 5, 9, 10 and 15. If I've said something inappropriate, please let me know, because I was not aware. You can tell me privately, if you prefer.
I agree with all you've said about the different options. I was just talking about myself: I want to change my presentation, but without surgery. I didn't mean any disrespect towards people who wants surgery. Also, I identify with people who are bi-gender, who sometimes feel in boymode, sometimes feel in girlmode, and sometimes feel inbetween. That's exactly how I feel.
I also agree with all you've said that ->-bleeped-<- is a physical condition. I'm not trying to alter my gender identity or sexual preference. I just want to find people who feel like I do, because in my city I don't know people who feel like I do, and sometimes I feel I am not completely understood.