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What are you on the Kinsey Scale? (How straight or how gay?)

Started by melissa90299, November 16, 2007, 09:41:23 AM

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Berliegh

Dear Forum people.... what is the Kinsey Scale? and where is it accessed and how do you access a score? I am from the U.K and have never heard of it...

Please Please Please Please Please Please Please Please can someone actually answer my question? this is third time I have made this post and request!
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Shana A

Quote from: Berliegh on November 18, 2007, 06:27:44 AM
Dear Forum people.... what is the Kinsey Scale? and where is it accessed and how do you access a score? I am from the U.K and have never heard of it...

Berliegh,

Here's some info about Dr Kinsey http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alfred_Kinsey, and here's the website for the Kinsey Institute which he founded http://www.indiana.edu/~kinsey/.

from wikipedia

"Alfred Charles Kinsey (June 23, 1894 – August 25, 1956), was an American biologist and professor of entomology and zoology who in 1947 founded the Institute for Research in Sex, Gender and Reproduction at Indiana University, now called the Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender and Reproduction. Kinsey's research on human sexuality profoundly influenced social and cultural values in the United States and many other countries in the West which went through the sexual revolution starting in the 1960s."

and

"Kinsey is generally regarded as the father of sexology, the systematic, scientific study of human sexuality. He initially became interested in the different forms of sexual practices around 1933, after discussing the topic extensively with a colleague, Robert Kroc. It is likely that Kinsey's study of the variations in mating practices among gall wasps led him to wonder how widely varied sexual practices among humans were. During this work, he developed a scale measuring sexual orientation, now known as the Kinsey Scale which ranges from 0 to 6, where 0 is exclusively heterosexual and 6 is exclusively homosexual; a rating of 7, for asexual, was added later by Kinsey's associates."

Zythyra
"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." Oscar Wilde


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Berliegh

At last....thank you very much  Zythyra for the information... :-*

I didn't know any of that stuff and it is helpful to know what the people on the forum are talking about regarding this subject..

One more thing......where do you access the test / scores link from?

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Shana A

Quote from: Berliegh on November 18, 2007, 06:51:40 AM
At last....thank you very much  Zythyra for the information... :-*

I didn't know any of that stuff and it is helpful to know what the people on the forum are talking about regarding this subject..

One more thing......where do you access the test / scores link from?



You're welcome Berliegh. I never saw it, however there was a movie made about him a few years ago, starring Liam Neeson. I believe how one scores is self choosing.

Z
"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." Oscar Wilde


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Berliegh

Quote from: y2gender on November 18, 2007, 07:49:52 AM
Quote from: Berliegh on November 18, 2007, 06:51:40 AM
At last....thank you very much  Zythyra for the information... :-*

I didn't know any of that stuff and it is helpful to know what the people on the forum are talking about regarding this subject..

One more thing......where do you access the test / scores link from?



You're welcome Berliegh. I never saw it, however there was a movie made about him a few years ago, starring Liam Neeson. I believe how one scores is self choosing.

Z

Yes....Liam Neeson...he's a great actor......saw him in 'Rob Roy' and 'The Missoin'....
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kae m

Quote from: Berliegh on November 18, 2007, 06:51:40 AM
One more thing......where do you access the test / scores link from?

Basically you look at the scale (posted earlier, but missing an option I've seen included before):
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0 exclusively heterosexual
1 predominantly heterosexual, incidentally homosexual
2 predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual
3 equally heterosexual and homosexual
4 predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally heterosexual
5 predominantly homosexual, incidentally heterosexual
6 exclusively homosexual
X Asexual

And then you pick a category to put yourself in.  Of course, no scale like this can be perfect because it makes assumptions and generalizations (in fact, generalizing is the entire point).

Through more reading from Zythyra's links I ended up finding more about http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Affectional_orientation which I think I can relate to much more closely.  It recognizes sex as one part of, not the definition of, attraction and affection.
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melissa90299

Quote from: Berliegh on November 18, 2007, 06:27:44 AM
Dear Forum people.... what is the Kinsey Scale? and where is it accessed and how do you access a score? I am from the U.K and have never heard of it...

Please Please Please Please Please Please Please Please can someone actually answer my question? this is third time I have made this post and request!



www.google.com
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Shana A

Quote from: Vivian45 on November 18, 2007, 08:39:29 AM
Through more reading from Zythyra's links I ended up finding more about http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Affectional_orientation which I think I can relate to much more closely.  It recognizes sex as one part of, not the definition of, attraction and affection.

That makes a lot of sense. Using the Kinsey scale, I'm right in the middle, a 3, however it goes beyond simply sexual orientation for me. I don't care what sex they are, or aren't for that matter, it's the person that I'm attracted to. As long as there's plenty of sex involved, I'm happy  ;D

Z
"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." Oscar Wilde


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Kate

Quote from: melissa90299 on November 18, 2007, 02:52:30 AM
I mean how hard is it to figure out?

Hello! I'm a woman with a penis, married to another woman who can arouse me (which I HATE), yet I have no interest in other women and only fantasize about men, but I'm grossed out by the idea of male-male anatomy sex, and the idea of anyone pleasing ME before SRS absolutely disgusts me, while the idea of post-SRS sex is absolutely mind-boggling.

I'd say it's pretty hard to figure out.

~Kate~
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tinkerbell

Quote from: melissa90299 on November 17, 2007, 01:19:14 AM
Quote from: Tink on November 16, 2007, 08:39:04 PM
Kinsey Scale

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0 exclusively heterosexual
1 predominantly heterosexual, incidentally homosexual
2 predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual
3 equally heterosexual and homosexual
4 predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally heterosexual
5 predominantly homosexual, incidentally heterosexual
6 exclusively homosexual

I am a zero, meaning that I am a girl and I am only attracted to men.  I don't have any experience with women whatsoever and I don't wanna!  :P

tink :icon_chick:

But you haven't met me yet.

ROFL  ;D :D  Okaaaay funny, aren't you?  Well, Chris is right, I'm as straight as an arrow.  I know that this is a cliche used by some other women, but this fairy is special and likes men too much in order to "experiment" with a girl.  That could never happen, trust me Melissa, I know what I am talking about.  Girls don't turn me on regardless of how beautiful or sexy they may be.  I am just not attracted to girls and never will be!  :P

tink :icon_chick:
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melissa90299

You zeroes might need to get in touch with your true feminine side. LOL It will come in time.

Or perhaps, the spiritual and emotional side of femininity, you guys keep talking about the physical, that is NOT what woman to woman intimacy is all about.
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Nero

Quote from: Andrew on November 17, 2007, 11:18:40 PM
QuoteI know I'm stereotyping, but men tend to be body-oriented and inflexible... and these scales seem to assume that women are as well.

You definitely are stereotyping. Mens' sexualities are flexible as well, bio and trans -- and we tend to discover certain aspects of our sexualities and attractions throughout our lives. Lots of trans guys, in particular, discover that we're attracted to different people once we transition. Bio guys are also weird like that. They often discover parts of their sexuality with certain major life transitions, such as going to college. I know at least one het-ish jock who loved to cuddle me when no one was looking back in my freshman year...

It's not stereotyping if it's true. Men tend to be more more body-oriented and inflexible than women. For one thing, there are more bisexual women than bisexual men. Just from my observations, nobody freak. Women tend to be more easily aroused by situations than men.

Posted on: November 19, 2007, 11:26:10 AM
As for where I fit on the Kinsey scale, I really don't know. Goes from 2 to 3 to 4 and back again, depending on my taste at the time.
Men for friendship and sex and women for romance and sex.
Nero was the Forum Admin here at Susan's Place for several years up to the time of his death.
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melissa90299

Nero, don't you think men are less likely to admit or recognize their bi-sexuality due to societal repression and taboos?
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Nero

Quote from: melissa90299 on November 19, 2007, 09:46:49 AM
Nero, don't you think men are less likely to admit or recognize their bi-sexuality due to societal repression and taboos?

yeah, that may be true. Bisexual women are way less marginalized than gay, bisexual men and lesbian women by the straight community.
Or at least it seems that way. I know a lot of guys who don't mind if their woman sleeps with other women.
Nero was the Forum Admin here at Susan's Place for several years up to the time of his death.
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Shana A

Quote from: Nero on November 19, 2007, 11:00:42 AM
Quote from: melissa90299 on November 19, 2007, 09:46:49 AM
Nero, don't you think men are less likely to admit or recognize their bi-sexuality due to societal repression and taboos?

yeah, that may be true. Bisexual women are way less marginalized than gay, bisexual men and lesbian women by the straight community.
Or at least it seems that way. I know a lot of guys who don't mind if their woman sleeps with other women.

Many males who don't identify as bisexual have had sex with other males. Whether that's due to societal repression, or other reasons, I don't know. I never had any problem acknowledging my bisexuality, then again, I wasn't necessarily male, even though my body appears otherwise.

y2g
"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." Oscar Wilde


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Enigma

Quote from: y2gender on November 19, 2007, 11:40:27 AM
Many males who don't identify as bisexual have had sex with other males. Whether that's due to societal repression, or other reasons, I don't know. I never had any problem acknowledging my bisexuality, then again, I wasn't necessarily male, even though my body appears otherwise.

In modern sexuality, they've all but dropped gay when referring to sex (just sex, not relationships, etc) between men, instead referring to it collectively as "men who have sex with other men".  Males that fit this definition that define themselves as gay or bi is actually a very small segment of this population, oddly enough.
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Shana A

Quote from: Enigma on November 19, 2007, 12:45:38 PM
In modern sexuality, they've all but dropped gay when referring to sex (just sex, not relationships, etc) between men, instead referring to it collectively as "men who have sex with other men".  Males that fit this definition that define themselves as gay or bi is actually a very small segment of this population, oddly enough.

I only recently saw this description "men who have sex with other men" in articles about Sen Larry Craig and closeted men who have sex with other men but don't identify as gay.

y2g
"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." Oscar Wilde


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Fer

The laws of God, the laws of man, He may keep that will and can; Not I. Let God and man decree Laws for themselves and not for me; And if my ways are not as theirs Let them mind their own affairs. - A. E. Housman
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