I suppose I'm now a very binary straight woman, I'm heterosexual and married to a man, hubby does all the heavy outside chores which I don't like particularly doing anyway, he'd often say to me about things which he doesn't particularly like doing ''Pauline it needs a woman's touch'' lol but he doesn't say it in a patronising or condescending way, with my history he knows it means a lot to me and my confidence in being accepting as a woman and being the woman I am, I hope I've explained myself, but might come across the wrong way to some, my 2cents.