How do I look? Honesty please!!!

[VenessaKyle]

Please be honest! You won't hurt my feelings. I really would like to know if I look feminine. I'm currently not on HRT however I'm starting with the next month or so. Thanks[emoji39]




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[Dani]

You look lovely, young lady!

[AlyssaJ]

I'd say for being pre-HRT you have one hell of a lovely start.  You do look rather feminine. The only area I'd say is tell-tale at all is around your eyes but even then many women have a similar structure so I wouldn't say it's non-feminine, maybe just a little bit more toward the androgynous side of the scale.  So yeah, you're looking beautiful.

[VenessaKyle]

You look lovely, young lady!

Thank you! The phrase "young lady" brought such a huge smile on my face!!![emoji2][emoji2][emoji2]


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[VenessaKyle]

"The only area I'd say is tell-tale at all is around your eyes..."

I agree with you!! Im super self conscious about my hooded eyes errrrrrr I look like a Neanderthal!!! Soo getting that ish fixed that's for sure!!



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[Dani]

Thank you! The phrase "young lady" brought such a huge smile on my face!!![emoji2][emoji2][emoji2]


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I am 67 years old. Everybody here is a youngster to me.

[VenessaKyle]

I am 67 years old. Everybody here is a youngster to me.

With age comes beauty ❤️️

P.s. It was more the "lady" part lol I appreciated that


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[natalie.ashlyne]

You look pretty  good. Nice dress too

[Pamelaval0819]

You are Beautiful

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[Sinclair]

To be honest, you look fab! Love the eyes. Now, if we were to meet in a 7-11 at 10 pm with all that fraked up lighting ... lol .. but, yea, you got it going. Like me, I'm so much closer naturally to a female body and attributes, it's just seems more natural to stay on my path and enhance both my body and mind to cross the finish line, and be who I know I am since I was little. I'm a girl. Always have been, it makes me smile everyday. 

[Steph(Fairgirl)]

Hi Vanessa,

You got it happening girl!

Lovely!
Hugs
Steph.

[Steph(Fairgirl)]

Sorry for spelling your name wrong earlier Venessa!

Hugs
Steph.

[AlyssaJ]

I agree with you!! Im super self conscious about my hooded eyes errrrrrr I look like a Neanderthal!!! Soo getting that ish fixed that's for sure!!



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I would actually encourage you to rethink that.  Remember we're being critical here because we know who you are and you asked.  To the average person on the street who isn't specifically looking to figure out where you have masculine features, you look female.  Surgical intervention is a pretty drastic step and honestly with the way the rest of your face is proportioned I don't think it's necessary.

I mean at the end of the day if it's going to help you be less self-conscious, then maybe it's worth the cost and risk.  Personally I think you look great as you are.  Get some hormones flowing and you're going to be a knock-out.

[Rachel_Christina]

You look great I think

[gv2002]

Very sexy!


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[VenessaKyle]

Thank you so much for your all your wonderful thoughts and support!!! I value everyone's opinion

Hope you all the best[emoji254]


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[ScarletRed]

Please be honest! You won't hurt my feelings. I really would like to know if I look feminine. I'm currently not on HRT however I'm starting with the next month or so. Thanks[emoji39]




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Wow you look really good for not being on HRT yet.


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[Rhonda333]

There is a website called photofeeler.com in which you post a picture of yourself and people score you in several categories. I posted my avatar picture and was voted high in the smart category, which pleases  me, but only 5% thought I was attractive- thats really disturbing. However, these voters are all quite young so their standards of attractiveness may be different. Try it, you will get an answer from people who don't know your trans- but its not for the faint hearted.

[Sophia Sage]

Beard shadow has to go, and you'll want to grow out your hair naturally. 

The angle of the picture and the dim lighting makes it difficult to ascertain your facial features.  Excellent makeup.

You have a very good silhouette!  Overall, you have a lot going for you pre-transition.

[VenessaKyle]

Beard shadow has to go, and you'll want to grow out your hair naturally. 

The angle of the picture and the dim lighting makes it difficult to ascertain your facial features.  Excellent makeup.

You have a very good silhouette!  Overall, you have a lot going for you pre-transition.

Totally agree with everything you said. I naturally don't have a lot of facial hair, however there's enough there where it can be challenging to hide. lol I purposely held the camera at that angle. Thank you for your honesty. I do want to grow my hair out soooooooo f-ing bad however do to my male genes my hair "male pattern baldness" runs on my mothers side. An to be honest an it's very sad an depressing but it's holding me back from transitioning...hate myself [emoji53]


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