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Started by 0kami_Zer0, May 04, 2017, 12:59:15 PM

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0kami_Zer0

Hello Everyone,

I came out this past March as transgender.  At first to a small group of friends, then my parents, eventually came out on Facebook and to co-workers.  So I've done this a bit backwards I suppose than most other people, since I've come out before I started my hormones (which I start at the end of the month), but in a way it has worked out for the best.  Everyone who has stepped up in support of me has the time to take in the changes that are coming and to get used to the new name, also gave me time to make sure the new name and the diminutive forms fit.  So far I've only had one bad reaction to my coming out and it was not the person I thought it would be; it was my mother and not my father who was most upset by this and she has said "good-bye" to me.

Besides that everything has been rolling along very smoothly, benefits of living in Vermont I suppose.  I really want to thank everyone here, even though I have recently joined and started posting I have been using the topics and references here for guidance since I first decided to come out and a few years before.  I'll make a longer post later about my journey thus far and as it unfolds in the future.

- Anastasia
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Michelle_P

Hi, Anastasia!

There is no One True Way of coming out or managing any transition related issues.  I thin you are doing just fine.  I am sorry to read about your mother.  She may have had a lot of herself invested in the old identity, and it can take time to get over the relatively sudden shock of discovering her child is not who she thought they were.

It sounds like you are already settled in with this site and the wealth of information here.

I also want to share some links with you. They are mostly welcome information and the rules that govern the site. If you have not had a chance to take a look, please take a moment to go through them.

Things that you should read


Once again, welcome to Susan's. Look around, ask questions and join in.
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My personal transition path included medical changes.  The path others take may require no medical intervention, or different care.  We each find our own path. I provide these dates for the curious.
Electrolysis - Hours in The Chair: 238 (8.5 were preparing for GCS, five clearings); On estradiol patch June 2016; Full-time Oct 22, 2016; GCS Oct 20, 2017; FFS Aug 28, 2018; Stage 2 labiaplasty revision and BA Feb 26, 2019
Michelle's personal blog and biography
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V M


Hi Anastasia  :icon_wave:

Welcome to Susan's Place  :)  Glad to have you here, join on in the fun

Hugs

V M
The main things to remember in life are Love, Kindness, Understanding and Respect - Always make forward progress

Superficial fanny kissing friends are a dime a dozen, a TRUE FRIEND however is PRICELESS


- V M
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Shy

Hi Anastasia,

I'm also did things backwards, upside down and back to front, i'm working on sideways at the moment ;D

Have fun at Susan's, and welcome.

Peace and love and all that good stuff,

Sadie.
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