My man is aware I am post op transsexual and he is fine with it. HE told me, he sees me as all woman, as I dress, act and look physically like a woman. I actually told me, he would like to meet the doc that gave me the best vagina he ever had the pleasure of experiencing (lol). I had the added worry, as when I told him, we had already slept together (not the same night)
I don't advertise this fact with people in general, Only one of my close female friends knows that I was born a man.