Just curious whether or not your current partner knows.

Yes, my husband does know about my past. He has known from day one. Hugs
Mariah

My wife has known from day one. We met about 18 months after I went full time. That was 13 years ago.

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I'm single as a Pringle, but all my past boyfriends knew because I tell them almost right after they ask me out.

My wife of 6 years knows, and she's completely on board. The recent news surprised her a little, and it took her a couple of days to process it, but know she's my biggest ally.

Later, she confessed that she always thought I kissed like a woman. Lol! Not that that is a bad thing...


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My wife was the first person I told.  Having her support made all the rest so much easier.

Yes. He is my Love.

No current partner, so yeah, he doesn't know. LOL. Whoever is.

just a joke. I wish it was easier with men.

No current partner either

Yes. Not having had my surgery yet, it is the only way to be. Accidental and unexpected intimacy happen all too frequently. Not that I have gone out with that many men in the last 2 1/2 years. There have been a few though.

My wife has been a great supporter and facilitator. I love to go clothes shopping together. As long as I remain just a cross dresser however. For now she has her limits.

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Wife has known before we were married 23+ years ago, but it's been up and down. What started out as cross dressing isn't and there's a lack of understanding or tolerance for change. As some say, there are limits. Some days when the dysphoria is bad, I could walk in front of a bus and not care. Like someone here has said, it's like being stuck between a rock and a hard place.


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Quote from: KathyLauren on May 08, 2017, 04:23:31 PM
My wife was the first person I told.  Having her support made all the rest so much easier.

Ditto Kathy Lauren.  I'm not sure I would have made it to this point without her.

Quote from: Mariah on May 08, 2017, 03:16:37 PM
Yes, my husband does know about my past. He has known from day one. Hugs
Mariah

Same. My hubs knew when he first met me. It's never really an issue between us.

Hell to the yeah my partner knows.   

My husband knew before we ever met in person because I told him, though it was really a non-issue with him. My other partner (we are polyamorous) found out from his other partner, my roommate, so we never had to have that conversation prior to becoming involved. Funnily enough I DID just have to disclose to somebody new yesterday, who I had told I was trans (he is part of our same social group and probably knew anyway) but had not had the discussion about operative status with yet. We have started becoming intimate and I wanted him to know the whole story before things went any further, but again it was a non-issue and his only response was that he liked me for me and just wanted ME to be comfortable with what we did. So I've been pretty lucky in this regard.

None of my partners have known since I had SRS.  And my narrative remains closed.

Yes, my wife knows, and is now my biggest supporter!

My wife has known since the end of November 2016, and even before that I made her aware of my crossdressing and what I previously identified as gender fluidity. I sort of opened up to her in stages as I came to accept myself as a transwoman.

My man is aware I am post op transsexual and he is fine with it. HE told me, he sees me as all woman, as I dress, act and look physically like a woman.  I actually told me, he would like to meet the doc that gave me the best vagina he ever had the pleasure of experiencing (lol). I had the added worry, as when I told him, we had already slept together (not the same night)

I don't advertise this fact with people in general, Only one of my close female friends knows that I was born a man.