One final post before I move on from this series of post.
The spring of 2018 will go down as the perfect storm. I was about to have my cake and eat it to, until one night that changed the course of the future. A place I have walked hundreds of times would become a crime scene, I would be left bleeding on the ground as a man ran way with my wallet. My cell phone so covered with blood, I couldn't call for help. After weeks of doctors visits and reconstructive surgery, I won't even be able to shower on my own. The wife who I had thought just weeks ago about breaking her heart, was my care giver. Even as my physical wounds healed, my mental wounds became more apparent. There was no longer talk transitioning, going in different directions from my wife. I couldn't even muster the energy to get out of bed. When I realized how bad things were, I called a therapist for help. Just weeks before all this happened there was talk of babies and transitioning to a woman, now it was just a chore to get out bed in the morning. How could a be a father to a new baby, if getting out of bed was a chore? I better start getting better because a baby is on its way. At some point in therapy came the question what were you doing out there when you got attacked. I knew what was going on in my head, but I didn't want to go down that rabbit home, but I went there and talked about my desires to be female instead of male. Things went different from there, there was no only being a woman will make you happy so get ready to leave your wife. Instead there was talk about what changes would make you comfortable and would your wife be open to these things. It open a new dialogue between my wife and I. There have been points on this journey where I have said this is what I want and what I am going to do. My wife gets frustrated when I do this, but nothing so far has pushed her out of the picture. We have now welcomed a new addition into our family. I started a low dose of estrogen, my wife isn't thrilled, but hasn't left me either. We have horrible days, bad days, good days and the rare great day, but overall there are more good then bad.