Okay, posting this here, since I have no idea where I am on the gender spectrum as of yet besides not feeling female very much if at all and identifying as non-binary until I figure it out... But after a breakdown from my husband asking my daughter if I am a girl (see my Murder Dysphoria thread that I'm too lazy to link) we had a long chat. He still has no clue how to respond to all this, which I'm trying to understand, but is really difficult because he is the only person in my real life that I came out to, and really could use his support. We realized that our marriage may not last through this, but we're gonna try and make it work still as best as we can.
But that's not what I want to talk about. My next step (besides finding a therapist hahaha.)... I did it! I asked him to try using different pronouns for me. I really wanted to try asking him to use 'he/his' pronouns, but it just felt odd asking that right now when we're still exploring this. But he agreed (despite reservations because of our kids) to try it, at the very least at home. I wasn't able to manage to convince him to try they/their/theirs because his whole speech pathologist in him thinks its too hard to differentiate when people already have language abilities. But he did agree to Ze/zir...
Trying to break the mold... here we come!
