I'm a 15 year old non-binary kid who has been having a lot of chest dysphoria. I know I should just try to ignore it but it's just so.. hard. I know that things will be better in the future and that I'll have the possibility to get a surgery but.. it feels like a such a long time (about 3 years). I'm being really anxious about not having so much patience. And yes, I should get a binder but I don't have enough money yet.
But what I've been thinking and now came to ask is about changing your mind, somehow. Your point of views, opinions. Do you think it's healthy to try to love your body and accept your chest even if it doesn't match your identity? Or is that unhealthy and forcing? How do you even do that as a transperson? Could that take my dysphoria forever? Could that be any help?
(Also sorry if my english seems little off. It's not my mother language + I'm still feeling very dysphoric so I wrote this in a rush)