I guess I'll state the obvious first - I'm new to the community
In all honesty, I didn't expect to stick around for to long but now have decided to be an active member. I've been dealing with a lot of issues the past few weeks from my family and with myself and didn't know where or who to turn too. I live in a small city with around 25,000 people and so far I'm the only trans person to my knowledge. For a while I've been confused on where I fit in on the ever expanding gender spectrum and I needed guidance and advice where I wouldn't be judged or ridiculed... I'm a stubborn girl and I felt I should be able to figure out my problems all on my own... I finally decided to suck it up and talk. I joined and posted my question. I was scared to read what others replied so I paced back and forth in my bedroom for an hour or so - hesitant to read. I gathered the courage and read what others had wrote... To my surprise, everyone was so welcoming and respectful which is a new feeling for me.
I'm 19 years old and began my transition the summer before my first year of high school. My mom has been reall awesome and supportive during my journey but there has been a few hick ups along the way. Sadly, most of my family don't see it the same way. My dad has never accepted me as me and there has been a lot of tension between us. My parents divorced when I was in grade 5/6 which made my life much easier and made my dream of being the person I feel I am more of a reality. My parents are now back together which have created a bit more animosity In my life but I'm dealing with it the best way I can
At this very moment I am not sure if I'm trans, gender fluid or non binary which has created a big confliction within myself... What I am sure of is I want to live my life as female and be treated as such... I still have lots to discovery about myself and I feel this community may be able to help me in doing so
I'm a great listener and love giving others help and advice when they are feeling down... I hope I can help, support and inspire others to follow their heart in becoming who they feel they are meant to be.
I have experienced many forms of bullying and discrimination in my life and it has been rough as all of you already know from your own journeys. Transitioning at such a young age around my fellow classmates who weren't able to comprehend who I was has had a straining toll my on emotions and mentality but I tried / try to overcome it in the most positive way I can / could. I have been called every name in the book, jumped and beaten up, stolen from, ect and I feel like I can guide and help people of youth into overcoming many obstacles they may face in their long road to happiness. Feel free to message me if you're having a bad day or feel like you just need to vent <3
I want to thank everyone who has already been so supportive and reassuring to me getting through some issues I needed help with.
I hope to get to know many of you wonderful people in the future
Have a wonderful day!
