I guess I'll state the obvious first - I'm new to the community In all honesty, I didn't expect to stick around for to long but now have decided to be an active member. I've been dealing with a lot of issues the past few weeks from my family and with myself and didn't know where or who to turn too. I live in a small city with around 25,000 people and so far I'm the only trans person to my knowledge. For a while I've been confused on where I fit in on the ever expanding gender spectrum and I needed guidance and advice where I wouldn't be judged or ridiculed... I'm a stubborn girl and I felt I should be able to figure out my problems all on my own... I finally decided to suck it up and talk. I joined and posted my question. I was scared to read what others replied so I paced back and forth in my bedroom for an hour or so - hesitant to read. I gathered the courage and read what others had wrote... To my surprise, everyone was so welcoming and respectful which is a new feeling for me.

I'm 19 years old and began my transition the summer before my first year of high school. My mom has been reall awesome and supportive during my journey but there has been a few hick ups along the way. Sadly, most of my family don't see it the same way. My dad has never accepted me as me and there has been a lot of tension between us. My parents divorced when I was in grade 5/6 which made my life much easier and made my dream of being the person I feel I am more of a reality. My parents are now back together which have created a bit more animosity In my life but I'm dealing with it the best way I can

At this very moment I am not sure if I'm trans, gender fluid or non binary which has created a big confliction within myself... What I am sure of is I want to live my life as female and be treated as such... I still have lots to discovery about myself and I feel this community may be able to help me in doing so

I'm a great listener and love giving others help and advice when they are feeling down... I hope I can help, support and inspire others to follow their heart in becoming who they feel they are meant to be.

I have experienced many forms of bullying and discrimination in my life and it has been rough as all of you already know from your own journeys. Transitioning at such a young age around my fellow classmates who weren't able to comprehend who I was has had a straining toll my on emotions and mentality but I tried / try to overcome it in the most positive way I can / could. I have been called every name in the book, jumped and beaten up, stolen from, ect and I feel like I can guide and help people of youth into overcoming many obstacles they may face in their long road to happiness. Feel free to message me if you're having a bad day or feel like you just need to vent <3

I want to thank everyone who has already been so supportive and reassuring to me getting through some issues I needed help with.

I hope to get to know many of you wonderful people in the future Have a wonderful day!

Hi Jessica-Light,

  I'm Laurie, self appointed unofficial greeter here. ((Hug))  Hi!! Welcome to Susan's Place. Come on in and have a look around you might, just might find something here you like. There are a lot of nice people here.. What's that? Me? Oh no not me I'm old and mean and rotten. The others are the nice ones. Well except for Moni that is. She's kinda umm "out there" most of the time best to stay clear of that nut. Well, anyway there are lots of good people here and most are willing to be of help if they can and you let them be. Come on in and get comfy. Yeah, you can use that chair, it's Moni's  she won't even know. Again make yourself at home there's coffee and hot water for tea on the counter. There might be some soda in the fridge if Ashley has drank it all. And water in the tap.
  I'm glad you found us and hope you like it here. Enjoy your stay and don't forget to fillout the survey forms at the end. LOL

  Hugs,
   Laurie

Thank you very much for that most wonderful and amusing welcome! I have a feeling you aren't as rotten as you claim to be I truly do love it here and feel so very welcomed by the members I have already met!

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Quote from: Laurie on June 05, 2017, 02:11:25 PM
Hi Jessica-Light,

  I'm Laurie, self appointed unofficial greeter here. ((Hug))  Hi!! Welcome to Susan's Place. Come on in and have a look around you might, just might find something here you like. There are a lot of nice people here.. What's that? Me? Oh no not me I'm old and mean and rotten. The others are the nice ones. Well except for Moni that is. She's kinda umm "out there" most of the time best to stay clear of that nut. Well, anyway there are lots of good people here and most are willing to be of help if they can and you let them be. Come on in and get comfy. Yeah, you can use that chair, it's Moni's  she won't even know. Again make yourself at home there's coffee and hot water for tea on the counter. There might be some soda in the fridge if Ashley has drank it all. And water in the tap.
  I'm glad you found us and hope you like it here. Enjoy your stay and don't forget to fillout the survey forms at the end. LOL

  Hugs,
   Laurie

Jessica,
   I am so sorry, someone must not have locked Laurie's cage. She gets out occasionally, and thinks she is a moderator.
I enjoyed your introduction, I thought it was sweet and caring. I have always thought that the most interesting and empathetic people have gone through some sort of adversity. It must have taken a lot of strength and determination to transition at the point you did. My hat is off to you. I read that you were concerned about people's reactions to your posts. People really want to help others here. Even Laurie and myself, Susan's unofficial, unfunny comodians want to help. Emphasis on unfunny. If anyone ever messes with you tell Laurie they stole her cookies and problem solved. Hope to see you on the boards, welcome!
Moni

Thank you all for the warm and amusing welcomes! It's such a wonderful feeling as apposed to being the elephant in the room. Laurie's welcome put a much needed smile on my face so don't lock her back up just yet... I owe a lot of where I'm at to my mom. She's been so open minded about things and I couldn't be more lucky to have her as my mom.

I've always been a very accepting girl who would never dare cast judgement on another individual... Treat others as you would like to be treated is where I stand, sadly such things can not be said for some people i have encountered throughout my life. As much as I try to keep a clear mind about myself and others I have weak moments like anyone else. I have learned things can either go really good or really bad when people find out I'm trans.

I'm also lucky enough to have the few good friends i do have which has most certainly help me get through a lot. My boyfriend also proves himself to be a genuine gentlemen with each passing day. We are low key but that is because of my decision... He wants to go fully public but I fear the backlash he may recieve will destroy what him and I have built in the past year. He wants me to be there when he tells his parents and I'm honestly nervous and scared. It was hard enough for me having to deal with the negativity from most of my own family... I panic when I think I may have to witness the very same thing with someone I love. I don't want to hide who I am but I also dont want to be the one who makes him lose everything... I think what I'm feeling is normal and have to take it one day at a time.

Music has been my greatest friend when I have bad days. I have an addiction for collecting albums from cd to vinyl. The escape music offers is so tranquil and lets me drift away from reality.

Thank you all for the warm welcomes <3