GCS with McGinn (After so many years waiting)

[Laurie]

 Hey Mawnika,

  That was a bold but positive move you made confronting your neighbor regarding his indiscretions and short comings. (no pun intended... well maybe just a little). I hope it does some good.

Hugs,
  Laurie

[Jessica Lynne]

Hey Mawnika,

  That was a bold but positive move you made confronting your neighbor regarding his indiscretions and short comings. (no pun intended... well maybe just a little). I hope it does some good.

Hugs,
  Laurie

Dear Ms. Super Moderator Laurie, Please lock this thread as it's gotten completely out of hand and gone totally off the rails! Everyone has suffered more than enough trauma here!  Thank you for your time. I look forward to seeing that little lock thingy on the thread Title.
     Warm regards from the feigning and always demure, Ms. Jessica

[HappyMoni]

Orange is the new black.   

Oh gosh please don't tell me there is a black one, a pink one, or a red one,... orange is big enough!

Dear Ms. Super Moderator Laurie, Please lock this thread as it's gotten completely out of hand and gone totally off the rails! Everyone has suffered more than enough trauma here!  Thank you for your time. I look forward to seeing that little lock thingy on the thread Title.
     Warm regards from the feigning and always demure, Ms. Jessica

What did I do Jess? I won't mention my neighbor again, I promise. He is a little gross, I will admit.

I met with the Mom of one the other patients in the recovery house today. She was in town. She told me something I did not realize. She said the prostate is above the vagina. I thought it was closer to the colon/rectum. It must be moved during the surgery. This makes me wonder about a prostate exam. My PCP can no longer do this exam then, it will need to be done with whoever I find for gynecological check.

Now see Jess, we're talking vaginas and rectums again, no need to lock thread.
Moni

[SadieBlake]

Yep we now have a g spot and I suppose a prostate exam is technically necessary, however with testosterone gone from the system, the likelihood of ever developing prostate issues is really low.

[Jessica Lynne]

Oh gosh please don't tell me there is a black one, a pink one, or a red one,... orange is big enough!

Now see Jess, we're talking vaginas and rectums again, no need to lock thread.
Moni

Okay then, if we can get back to vag's and buttholes, I'm good. Never mind, Laurie.

[Dena]

A prostate examine can be preformed through the vagina and it's easer to feel that the other way. Been there, done that.

[Laurie]

Okay then, if we can get back to vag's and buttholes, I'm good. Never mind, Laurie.

  Don't worry Jess, I'm not touching it now. ewwww

[Rachel]

The prostate is located on the upper side of the vaginal canal about 3 inches in just behind the entrance hump. I is definitely a G spot. That and the back of the vagina and the citreous.

[HappyMoni]

Well it had to happen, back to work tomorrow! Have all new situation to get used to, so I will maybe not be on here as much for a while. If anything surgery related happens, I'll post it. Might be real tired tomorrow. Glad it is Thursday and not Monday.
I did a little playing and rubbing last night. It seemed that I do produce some lubrication, self made. It is still too sore and numb to tell much. Am looking forward to the vibrator. (Somewhere I think Sadie's head just popped up. lol) I do feel that dorsal nerve (?) a lot as I move around throughout the day. Ta ta!
Moni  (Sex Goddess of the Maryland Suburbs)

[Jacqueline]

Well it had to happen, back to work tomorrow! Have all new situation to get used to, so I will maybe not be on here as much for a while. If anything surgery related happens, I'll post it. Might be real tired tomorrow. Glad it is Thursday and not Monday.
I did a little playing and rubbing last night. It seemed that I do produce some lubrication, self made. It is still too sore and numb to tell much. Am looking forward to the vibrator. (Somewhere I think Sadie's head just popped up. lol) I do feel that dorsal nerve (?) a lot as I move around throughout the day. Ta ta!
Moni  (Sex Goddess of the Maryland Suburbs)

Does the title come with the surgery?  Nice. I want one.

Jacqui

[Kendra]

Moni don't forget to file a trademark registration for your new title.

Someday I hope to be Sleepless in Seattle. 

[HappyMoni]

From the calmness of this summer to the craziness of Fall. I am back to work which is always hectic. Then yesterday my Mom passed away. It is no surprise given her age and health, but it is emotional. We will soon head to Georgia to help out, especially with my brother, Paul (and Suki, for those who have met them.) I have been in this safety zone in my trans life this past summer, it is time to face unfriendly territory for the next week. I hope anyone reading this is doing well. Love to all!
Moni  XO

[steph2.0]

From the calmness of this summer to the craziness of Fall. I am back to work which is always hectic. Then yesterday my Mom passed away. It is no surprise given her age and health, but it is emotional. We will soon head to Georgia to help out, especially with my brother, Paul (and Suki, for those who have met them.) I have been in this safety zone in my trans life this past summer, it is time to face unfriendly territory for the next week. I hope anyone reading this is doing well. Love to all!
Moni  XO

Moni,

So sorry to hear about Mom, and having to deal with that in unfriendly surroundings. We haven't talked a lot, but because of your generous sharing of your journey I feel like I know you pretty well. I, as many others, admire you and have drawn hope and strength from your accomplishments.

When things get rough, think about your adoptive family here, and know that we love you and are on your side. Hopefully you can take back some of the strength you've given us.

Big hugs,

Stephanie

[Rachel]

Monica, I am sorry for your loss. Please express my condolences to your brother too. Give him a hug for me.

Virginia and in-laws, I am sending healing thoughts your way. I hope it works out for the better.

[HappyMoni]

Thank you Steph, I have gotten the sense from your posts that you are a very kind person. I have spoken with many wonderful people on Susan's, I will miss being on here. It is weird dealing with my Mom's death. She never knew Moni, she was the only one I never told. I sent her a card and signed it Monica. When she saw it, she pointed to my name, like who is that? Suki said we had gotten a dog. It didn't make sense to explain it to her in her mental state. Now I just have to deal with the part of the family that is luke warm at best. Their loss if they can't cope cause I am not gonna deal with any disrespect. Don't mess with the butterfly, right?
Moni
Thanks Rachel, just saw your post.

[davina61]

You have my condolences , Hugs from here XXXX

[Kendra]

Monica, very sorry to hear about your mother - my condolences.  Best wishes for your trip next week. 

[KathyLauren]

Moni, I am so sorry to hear about your mother.  And sorry to hear that you have to go into unfriendly territory to deal with it.  Be well on your trip!

[Gail20]

So sorry to hear about your Mom. . . mine died very slowly several years ago.  Her death was welcome at that point. . .  She was clueless about me and would have never been told.  In contrast, her youngest sister my Godmother, knows and always wanted me to tell her. It surprised me how my GM really didn't know my mother.  It would have wounded her deeply. She would not have understood and there was no value in telling her for me, her or anyone.

Prostate: After 15 years of HRT my 85 year-old Urologist, after examining me, said that mine was the smoothest, smallest, prostate he'd ever encountered. My father died of Prostate cancer and 2 of 4 brothers are being treated aggressively for it.  I was heading in that direction too prior to HRT but after 15 years of HRT . . .  nothing. . .:-)

[Michelle_P]

Moni, I was sorry to read of your loss.  You have my condolences, and best wishes in this difficult time.  Please don;t hesitate to reach out for any aid from those who share in your unfortunate experience.

Be well and stay safe!