Well from what I am experiencing, some of you have asked if the pain is associated with growth. I think it is, but i am not positive. I know with mine it has been slow and subtle growth with the associated pain. I believe it is just like growth spurts when you are a teen and have that pain before. So the pain is a good thing even though it is a pain (hehhehe, excuse the pun). Yes, all of us women are different we all grow at different rates, different sizes, different shapes, and various nipple size. It has many factors that we don't all understand, but it all works out even if you cheat as someone mentioned. I will cheat myself once the breasts have settled and stop growing. At which point I will choose how large to go. I may not need it, I don't know yet. So far I am happy with my breast growth and all the changes.