Quote from: AnneK on June 29, 2017, 01:35:40 PM
Unlike other groups, smoking is an entirely voluntary act. A personal choice. Please explain what valid reason someone might have for smoking, given the risks that are so well known. You might also talk to those who have lost loved ones due to smoking. As I mentioned, I lost 2 uncles and have known others who have died from smoking. You also forgot to mention those who have smoke forced on them, and the risks they face from 2nd hand smoke. I live in a condo and frequently experience smoke coming in through my windows. You also don't have to travel far, before experiencing someone forcing their smoke on you. Try going to any popular outdoor activity without experiencing 2nd hand smoke.
BTW, who is it that leaves all the butts I see on the ground???
You're correct. Smoking is entirely voluntary and a personal choice....Much like healthy things can be as well, I.E. being a vegetarian...Just because I eat meat doesn't mean I call vegetarian's stupid for choosing to leave that aspect out of their diet....Because while I think meat is an extremely tasty and delicious staple to the diet, I completely understand that people choose not to eat it, be it for health, personal, religious or moral reasons.
I've lost a grandfather to lung cancer. Both of my parents have smoked my entire life, all near-24 years of it, and 22 of those I lived at home. I have asthma, from genetics and allergies, not being a second-hand smoker. My lungs are scared from 3 bouts of pneumonia. I still smoke, and while yes, that damn sure doesn't
justify it, and it may seem stupid, it
IS my personal choice and I am not obligated to justify it to a complete stranger who just wants to be an a**hole about something they don't agree with. I don't expect any sympathy. I know that it's a bad habit. But so is biting my nails, popping my zits, picking my nose and obsessively washing my hands to the point that I am 23 with the hands of a 50 year old.
Yes, some smokers do leave buts on the ground, but not ALL smokers do that. In addition, I don't really know what you're talking about because smoking is generally prohibited on most grounds, in most restaurants and at most events to prevent the people like you from getting butt hurt, but more importantly to protect the people who have allergies to it and asthma, and etc.
I'm sorry that you're bitter and feel the need to judge people for their life choices in a place where people come to be supportive to each other FOR their life choices.
This forum is a place to be supportive of others and discuss the struggles we all face as trans, non-binaries and intersex people, and to come together and interact with others like us.
If one little topic like this ruffles your panties so bad then lord help the rest of the forums.