Hi guys:) SO sorry if this is super long, I'm just super nervous right now, as I've never had surgery other than wisdom teeth taken out before. I also know this is my first real post and all, but I've been a long time lurker and a lot of you have helped me with my transition (secretly I guess, lol) since I was 16, I'm now 22 and getting ready for my SRS.
I have some questions for some of the women that have had surgeries with Chettawut or Kaushik to help put my mind at ease, (and my sister's as well, seeing as though she is traveling with me). So, I apologize in advance if this is all information that has already been posted somewhere. Please correct my ignorance if I've been misguided on some information. Me and my sister both work at a 'breastaurant' chain as waitresses and I escort on the side to fund surgeries. I love both my jobs. But I'm completely stealth at the first job, and I also don't know of any girls or people to talk to about this seeing as though, I'm 100000% sure I'd lose my job having disclosed my trans status in my small town. So, I don't really want to risk talking about it to anyone I work with/friends with for obvious reasons. So, Anywho!!! Here goes nothing. thank you for taking the time to read this!
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Aesthetic: I'm REEAAAAALLLLY concerned with how things look, this is my main priority. the reason I'm going to Thailand is because so far, from the photos I've seen all the best looking vaginas seem to have come out of Thailand ( or Dr. Kaushik in India, honestly I'm super impressed with how those on his website look. ) Obviously this is an opinion. I've read of people going to Meltzer and Brassard having realllly beautiful results, and I'm sure they did. it's just I can't find any pictures of them. I'm 90% sure I'm going to go to Chettawut instead, but also am super curious about Dr. Kaushik. I also date A LOT. But, I never disclose my trans status and usually let the relationship fizzle out before I have to tell them. I'm worried about aesthetics and outcome of the vagina and being able to have normal sex. I'm super worried about this, but I'm sure I'm in good hands with Chett or anyone I go to.
My question: How does your vagina, well I guess look, lol. Do you like the appearance? I've noticed in some Thai results the lips don't look ' () ' like what most vaginas look like and instead take on a shape that is more like: ' U ' . I understand that there is a lot of variation with vaginas. But, do you like your results? Do they look normal? and most importantly has it ever been clocked in bed? As a escort, that could be super duper dangerous, so it's my main concern.
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Hotel: What was the hotels like? I understand you can choose between the three hotels listed on his site, I'm pretty sure I'm going to stay at the Dusit Princess. How did you go about booking for that long? Just online like I usually book my hotels only this time for the 30 days I'll be there? I read somewhere you can do that through Chetts office and they will help with that?
What was the room like? I understand that the Rama has rooms that are more convenient for a more lengthy stay as far as kitchen and appliances go, but is really cottage like. I reeeeaaalllly don't care too much to meet up and socialize much as I'd rather just recover and leave lol. so far the Dusit sounds pretty chill. I guess I'm just wondering if the hotels were good for recovery and pretty simple to book and stay comfortably in?
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Language barrier: I can imagine this being freaking awful lol, was it terrible? How did you discuss your needs to the nurse, and people you interacted with on a daily basis lol. Or was it mainly you just using google translate the entire time Haha.
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Phones: Did your carriers work? Or do I need to get a new phone at one of the malls over there? I read the CDMA (Sprint/Verizon) don't work. But GSM does (T-Mobile/ ATT). Did you have any trouble getting your iPhones to work over there?
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SRS Letters: I only have one letter from a therapist if I'm seeing Chettawut will that be a problem? Also The only letter I have is from awhile ago and it isn't addressed to any particular surgeon, will it need to be 'addressed' to him or is he rather flexible? I just don't want to get there and be turned away after all this time.
6) What was flying back like? I'm almost tempted to just stay another month around Bangkok after my surgery just in case ->-bleeped-<- hits the fan in those first few months (maybe 2, I know that's probably excessive lol. But a lot is at stake here and I know post op I'll still escort to pay for school, so it has to go well. )
I guess I'm just super overwhelmed, lol. Especially about notarizing things like documents and surgical letters. Just thinking about all of this is such a huge and daunting task!!!
I'd be SO grateful if someone didn't mind private messaging me and telling me about their experience! However you'd like to do that, number, email, here. (Still trying to figure the forum out so If I don't reply it's because I can't really figure it out. I'm also on EST time zone) Anyway, thanks again!
P.S. I apologize for any typos!