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MTF: telling my brother

Started by LilyMelody, August 07, 2017, 10:52:09 AM

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LilyMelody

So, I am a 27 year old MTF. I am out to most of family and close friends, but not my younger half-brother.

He's 13 years old, and we have never lived together. I don't know how to even begin. I worry that our lack of closeness bothers him, and that this might push us apart.

My other concern is that he had social problems in school and has been bullied a fair bit, and if it were to become known that he a trans sibling (he's VERY talkative and tells people everything) that things might become even worse for him.

Any thoughts?
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KathyLauren

Not knowing him or the family situation, it is hard to say what the best approach might be.

If he has been bullied in school, it is possible that he would appreaciate having someone "different" in his life to whom he might be able to talk.  I don't know about you, but many of us have had experience being bullied.  He might relate.


Just a thought.
2015-07-04 Awakening; 2015-11-15 Out to self; 2016-06-22 Out to wife; 2016-10-27 First time presenting in public; 2017-01-20 Started HRT!!; 2017-04-20 Out publicly; 2017-07-10 Legal name change; 2019-02-15 Approval for GRS; 2019-08-02 Official gender change; 2020-03-11 GRS; 2020-09-17 New birth certificate
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LilyMelody

I have no idea if he has ever even heard the term transgender.

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