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Has transitioon caused little or alot of conflict

Started by stephaniec, August 18, 2017, 05:59:12 PM

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Has transition caused a little or a lot of conflict

very little conflict
3 (60%)
A  whole lot of conflict
0 (0%)
other
2 (40%)

Total Members Voted: 5

stephaniec

Ive been lucky to have experienced very little conflict except for some depression once in awhile.
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Lady Sarah

I had to select "other". When I started my transition, I had about the same amount of conflict with others as I had pre-transition. Now that I have grown older and more mature, there are few conflicts to speak of, if any.
started HRT: July 13, 1991
orchi: December 23, 1994
trach shave: November, 1998
married: August 16, 2015
Back surgery: October 20, 2016
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KathyLauren

I have experienced no conflict at all over my transition.  A little bit of internal conflict about whether I was ready to do this, but that's all.  I have been very lucky.
2015-07-04 Awakening; 2015-11-15 Out to self; 2016-06-22 Out to wife; 2016-10-27 First time presenting in public; 2017-01-20 Started HRT!!; 2017-04-20 Out publicly; 2017-07-10 Legal name change; 2019-02-15 Approval for GRS; 2019-08-02 Official gender change; 2020-03-11 GRS; 2020-09-17 New birth certificate
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I Am Jess

I have been remarkably lucky in my transition in that I have had almost no conflicts. There have been almost no issues at work, my children are accepting (as are most of my other relatives) and I haven't really lost any friends (in fact I have many more).  The only negative has been the lack of acceptance by an uncle and my step-mom.  I'm very thankful that my transition has gone so well.
Follow my life's adventures on Instagram - @jessieleeannmcgrath
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Sarah.VanDistel

#4
Hi Stephanie!

If you're asking about "internal conflicts", then so far no, no conflicts. More a resolution of big conflicts with a sense of closure. [emoji57]

If your question is about conflicts with others... Well... No real conflicts per se, but my sister doesn't speak to me anymore (we barely spoke before, so it's not really a big change) and my mom started displaying a passive-aggressive silence which doesn't bother me much anymore, but when I think about it I find it saddening, but then I shrug my shoulders and think: "C'est la vie..." [emoji28] Besides, reactions from wife, kids, friends and co-workers have been nothing but extremely understanding and supportive, so I feel that the sum of reactions is largely positive.

Hugs, Sarah

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