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Started by Bari Jo, August 22, 2017, 05:52:24 PM

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Bari Jo

If not ready to come out at the office, at what point do you start binding?  I've caught some keen people already noticing, but am not ready to come out.  Is now the time?  Is it too late?  Cats out of the bag?
you know how far the universe extends outward? i think i go inside just as deep.

10/11/18 - out to the whole world.  100% friends and family support.
11/6/17 - came out to sister, best day of my life
9/5/17 - formal diagnosis and stopping DIY in favor if prescribed HRT
6/18/17 - decided to stop fighting the trans beast, back on DIY.
Too many ups and downs, DIY, purges of self inbetween dates.
Age 10 - suppression and denial began
Age 8 - knew I was different
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Dena

Don't bind. That can interfere with growing breast. If you have an issue that can't be covered with a lose fitting shirt, use a sports bra instead. On the other hand, if anybody says anything, just say it's a side effect of some medicine I am on and you would rather not talk about your personal medical history.
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Bari Jo

I like the way you think.  I'm using the side effect, which is no lie, so easy to look in the eye with that.

Bari Jo
you know how far the universe extends outward? i think i go inside just as deep.

10/11/18 - out to the whole world.  100% friends and family support.
11/6/17 - came out to sister, best day of my life
9/5/17 - formal diagnosis and stopping DIY in favor if prescribed HRT
6/18/17 - decided to stop fighting the trans beast, back on DIY.
Too many ups and downs, DIY, purges of self inbetween dates.
Age 10 - suppression and denial began
Age 8 - knew I was different
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JoanneB

I have a an almost B cup. Only my wife can tell when I am wearing a "too tight" fitting tee shirt. For work, as most areas of life, this former fatty wears nothing but loose, baggy fitting clothes. My wife being a heck more "sensitive" then I am, never notices the girls, even with a bra on in my work, dress, shirts. So I have to take on faith that if her hyper... did I say HYPER? critical eyes didn't notice, nor would anyone elses
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Bari Jo

I was heavy also, primarily trying to hide from being femme.  I slim now though lost 30 lbs and counting so the bumps are noticeable.  I hide behind hoodies:)
you know how far the universe extends outward? i think i go inside just as deep.

10/11/18 - out to the whole world.  100% friends and family support.
11/6/17 - came out to sister, best day of my life
9/5/17 - formal diagnosis and stopping DIY in favor if prescribed HRT
6/18/17 - decided to stop fighting the trans beast, back on DIY.
Too many ups and downs, DIY, purges of self inbetween dates.
Age 10 - suppression and denial began
Age 8 - knew I was different
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JoanneB

Quote from: Bari Jo on August 23, 2017, 10:28:45 PM
I was heavy also, primarily trying to hide from being femme.  I slim now though lost 30 lbs and counting so the bumps are noticeable.  I hide behind hoodies:)
I dropped 100 and some 20-30-40 years can only see all the big blobs of blubber around my bulbous belly.

Baggy tops are the way to go. And a small reality check, there are plenty of guys running around with nearly C cup or more moobs. Not cute and perky like a young girls but who can tell that in a baggy top?
.          (Pile Driver)  
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                    ^
(ROCK) ---> ME <--- (HARD PLACE)
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Bari Jo

Yeah, baggie is good, keep the skinny jeans at home.  I've got one girl I work with that is the perceptive one.  She commented today on growing out my hair, Yup, guilty.  I told her, Yup, sick of having short hair.  I tell you this though.  Fun times:)
you know how far the universe extends outward? i think i go inside just as deep.

10/11/18 - out to the whole world.  100% friends and family support.
11/6/17 - came out to sister, best day of my life
9/5/17 - formal diagnosis and stopping DIY in favor if prescribed HRT
6/18/17 - decided to stop fighting the trans beast, back on DIY.
Too many ups and downs, DIY, purges of self inbetween dates.
Age 10 - suppression and denial began
Age 8 - knew I was different
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