Solved: This was indirectly answered and it seems my hunch is true. Getting more real life experience with stuff and exploring things will help as well as finally dating. At least the surgery is its own thing and won't make me regret it since unlike GRS, I had personal to-my-core reasons for it that go beyond something sexual.
I want to preface this kind of topic that it may not be what you see on here often, though please be open minded and ask questions if you're confused. The main point of this thread is self-help and this section seemed to be the best place to put it. If I'm breaking any rules tell me. Also I'll be 25 soon and am a male by birth.
I've had an increasing dysphoria with my male genitalia since puberty which didn't become as obvious until 19. It felt and looked like I had someone else's genitals and every time I looked down in a shower I saw smoothness in my head even though reality said otherwise. At this point I've already got nullo surgery two weeks ago (as of now) and am super happy with the results so far, however the issue is I'm gender fluid and the girl part of me seems to have this thought I can still get GRS and still wants me to get it even though the boy side is fine.
Logically I can tell anyone why GRS isn't for me and why I'd have been depressed and regretted the surgery, though it doesn't seem to be enough to quiet that part of me. I understand I will never be born a girl and transitioning won't realistically be for me so what are the annoying, reality-check type of downsides to GRS that isn't usually talked about long term after things heal? For example I know dilating will be needed but what about other downsides or things I'm subconsciously glorifying or pretending is better than it is? Maybe some who have had this surgery for many years can chime in on how it changes over time, what may happen with some kinds of clothes, complications etc.
Hopefully this has been explained clear enough. I understand if you're a bit confused on the type of question as it's a strange one for me too. There's no doubt I made the right choice in surgery, however, so at least that part has been dealt with and my head's not loaded with thoughts like it was pre-surgery.
Thank you.