I'm so proud of my fiancé!

[MamaPound]

Six months ago, my fiancé told me that he had always felt like a woman, believed he truly was, and felt his whole life felt off because he was in this boy shaped body. I always noticed his eyes seeming sad and his personality felt like he was missing something. That day he became she to me. She told me her true name (Felicia) and I used female pronouns for her in private. I'm so proud of her strength to tell me even though she knew I might not accept it. But I did, I love her with all my heart and soul and I can't wait to be her wife one day. She recently tried female clothing for the first time and was so happy and excited! I'm working on getting her to come here and meet her sisters, get some advice, and share her story. I'm also glad there is somewhere I could go and get ideas and advice for her as well. It's amazing here! Lastly I'm happy there is a spot for SO's to chat as well.
Blessed be and thank you!
Jenne


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[Megan.]

Your pride and support makes me cry with happiness,  thank you.  X

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[elkie-t]

Hi MamaPound,
I'm not sure if your fiancé wants to go all the way for full transition, or decides to settle somewhere in the middle but a few things makes crossdressing a lot easier (while still allowing for male presentation if needed).
1) removing facial hair (with laser treatments if hair is dark) and electrolysis (if not)
2) waxing/shaving body hair...
3) having neat eye brows (not necessarily feminine-thin, just define good shape and remove stray hair).
4) growing hair and once grown enough - having a feminine cut.
5) low dose HRT... it will make permanent changes, but over a long period of time... plenty of opportunities to decide if she wants to speed it up or stop.

Fun activities for you guys:
1) having your fiancé to have her own nighties and underwear whenever she wants to wear it.
2) shooing/ buying her wardrobe
3) teaching her makeup skills (or better yet, enrolling her into a cosmetician school).
4) as mentioned before - going to a spa for full body wax (and whatever else might be needed to both of you)
5) going together to an LGBT-friendly bar / party.

I also think your fiancé might want to go to a gender therapist. If this was her first time she crossdresser, she seems a bit insecure with herself going out and she might need professional help to figure her options.



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[MamaPound]

Hi MamaPound,
I'm not sure if your fiancé wants to go all the way for full transition, or decides to settle somewhere in the middle but a few things makes crossdressing a lot easier (while still allowing for male presentation if needed).
1) removing facial hair (with laser treatments if hair is dark) and electrolysis (if not)
2) waxing/shaving body hair...
3) having neat eye brows (not necessarily feminine-thin, just define good shape and remove stray hair).
4) growing hair and once grown enough - having a feminine cut.
5) low dose HRT... it will make permanent changes, but over a long period of time... plenty of opportunities to decide if she wants to speed it up or stop.

Fun activities for you guys:
1) having your fiancé to have her own nighties and underwear whenever she wants to wear it.
2) shooing/ buying her wardrobe
3) teaching her makeup skills (or better yet, enrolling her into a cosmetician school).
4) as mentioned before - going to a spa for full body wax (and whatever else might be needed to both of you)
5) going together to an LGBT-friendly bar / party.

I also think your fiancé might want to go to a gender therapist. If this was her first time she crossdresser, she seems a bit insecure with herself going out and she might need professional help to figure her options.



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Thank you SO much! A lot of the things you mentioned are things we have been doing and/or working on. The hair is the biggest thing as she is a very hairy person. We started with shaving and that helped but she is taking a bigger step and trying waxing next. This weekend I'm taking her shopping for more clothes, and definitely underwear and nighties!
Thank you very much❤️


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[MamaPound]

Your pride and support makes me cry with happiness,  thank you.  X

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[emoji171][emoji171]I don't know any other way to be [emoji4] full support and love is all I know.


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[MamaPound]

Hi MamaPound,
I'm not sure if your fiancé wants to go all the way for full transition, or decides to settle somewhere in the middle but a few things makes crossdressing a lot easier (while still allowing for male presentation if needed).
1) removing facial hair (with laser treatments if hair is dark) and electrolysis (if not)
2) waxing/shaving body hair...
3) having neat eye brows (not necessarily feminine-thin, just define good shape and remove stray hair).
4) growing hair and once grown enough - having a feminine cut.
5) low dose HRT... it will make permanent changes, but over a long period of time... plenty of opportunities to decide if she wants to speed it up or stop.

Fun activities for you guys:
1) having your fiancé to have her own nighties and underwear whenever she wants to wear it.
2) shooing/ buying her wardrobe
3) teaching her makeup skills (or better yet, enrolling her into a cosmetician school).
4) as mentioned before - going to a spa for full body wax (and whatever else might be needed to both of you)
5) going together to an LGBT-friendly bar / party.

I also think your fiancé might want to go to a gender therapist. If this was her first time she crossdresser, she seems a bit insecure with herself going out and she might need professional help to figure her options.



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Oh and also we have gone to a few LGBT events and clubs together and she is hoping to start sessions with a therapist and start HRT too!


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[elkie-t]

Getting rid of facial hair is the most time consuming, and it requires letting it grow for several days before the procedure. So the earlier it is started, the better. And not having to deal with beard shadow is a huge help with presentation as a female

Low dose HRT would stop aging in male pattern, reduce body hair and help in many other areas.



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[MamaPound]

Thank you [emoji16] you're such a big comfort already.


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[Dena]

Welcome to Susan's Place. I see you have made yourself at home and have started to explore the site. Felicia is welcome here when she is ready to join us. In some ways she is farther along than some of the members as she has come out to you. Many of our members make this site the first people they tell their life time secret to.

I ran into one of your posts earlier but I decided to wait on the introduction until I reached this thread as it seemed to be where most of the conversation is. You will find there are many helpful people on the site but should you need something I can help with, let me know.

A Cautionary Note:
This is a public forum so please remember when posting that The Internet Never Forgets, and the various web crawlers and archival sites out there may retain information that you post.

We cannot ensure that any information you share on the site will be protected from public view and/or copying or reproduction. This warning is also listed in the Terms of Service listed below.

If you give out personal information on Susan's you are responsible for any consequence.


I also want to share some links with you. They include helpful information and the rules that govern the site.  It is important for your enjoyment of the site to take a moment to go through them

Things that you should read

Site Terms of Service & Rules to Live By	Standard Terms & Definitions	Post Ranks (including when you can upload an avatar)
Reputation rules	News posting & quoting guidelines	Photo, avatars, & signature images policy

[MamaPound]

Welcome to Susan's Place. I see you have made yourself at home and have started to explore the site. Felicia is welcome here when she is ready to join us. In some ways she is farther along than some of the members as she has come out to you. Many of our members make this site the first people they tell their life time secret to.

I ran into one of your posts earlier but I decided to wait on the introduction until I reached this thread as it seemed to be where most of the conversation is. You will find there are many helpful people on the site but should you need something I can help with, let me know.

A Cautionary Note:
This is a public forum so please remember when posting that The Internet Never Forgets, and the various web crawlers and archival sites out there may retain information that you post.

We cannot ensure that any information you share on the site will be protected from public view and/or copying or reproduction. This warning is also listed in the Terms of Service listed below.

If you give out personal information on Susan's you are responsible for any consequence.


I also want to share some links with you. They include helpful information and the rules that govern the site.  It is important for your enjoyment of the site to take a moment to go through them

Things that you should read

Site Terms of Service & Rules to Live By	Standard Terms & Definitions	Post Ranks (including when you can upload an avatar)
Reputation rules	News posting & quoting guidelines	Photo, avatars, & signature images policy

Thank you Dena! [emoji171]


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[HappyMoni]

Felicia,
   Come visit us. 99.99% of us don't bite. We would love to chat with you, hear more about you, and maybe even have a laugh or two.  Sometimes we slip in a tear also, but it is all with the intent of finding ourselves in a better  place. So consider this your invitation to come play with friends.  My name is Moni.

[MamaPound]

Felicia,
   Come visit us. 99.99% of us don't bite. We would love to chat with you, hear more about you, and maybe even have a laugh or two.  Sometimes we slip in a tear also, but it is all with the intent of finding ourselves in a better  place. So consider this your invitation to come play with friends.  My name is Moni.

I will share your message with her [emoji4] thank you Moni [emoji172]


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