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Parents pull children out of school after lesson on trans issues

Started by stephaniec, September 04, 2017, 03:01:01 PM

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ericca

Transgender issues should be taught in schools. This is a necessary step for gender identity. However, do you think that these should be introduced this early? I believe that everyone should have a sense of self-identity at an early age, but I am not sure if a kindergartener can already comprehend.

The reaction was too much in my opinion. Rather than pulling out, parents should have been more open through dialogue. A hasty transfer may also cause confusion. I hope this controversy does not cause negative implications to how the community is viewed. 

More power to the community. Love wins!
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Deborah

I think if the issue will be encountered at that early age then it should be taught.  It is in fact encountered as some children are socially transitioning at that age. 

If some parents are uncomfortable with their children being taught that they should be kind to and understanding of others then it is a good thing for them to withdraw.
Love is not obedience, conformity, or submission. It is a counterfeit love that is contingent upon authority, punishment, or reward. True love is respect and admiration, compassion and kindness, freely given by a healthy, unafraid human being....  - Dan Barker

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Laurie

The sooner the kids are taught and open their minds to  gender spectrums, the sooner the prejudices of their parents will die out. We need more of this education, not less.

Hugs,
   Laurie
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Devlyn

Laurie, when our generation dies out, the world is going to be a better place. Kids nowadays don't give a rat's ass about gender or race, that's our issue.

Hugs, Devlyn
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Laurie

Quote from: Devlyn Marie on September 10, 2017, 01:06:07 PM
Laurie, when our generation dies out, the world is going to be a better place. Kids nowadays don't give a rat's ass about gender or race, that's our issue.

Hugs, Devlyn

Now isn't that pretty much what I said? Only difference is that there are what 3 or 4 generations between our generation and their parents? All those need to die out for real progress can be made.

Hugs,
   Laurie
April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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DawnOday

Ignorance should not be the new normal. I pledged allegiance to a flag that represented equality and then the people that give that flag meaning took a right turn.
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Laurie

Quote from: DawnOday on September 10, 2017, 03:16:30 PM
Ignorance should not be the new normal. I pledged allegiance to a flag that represented equality and then the people that give that flag meaning took a right turn.

I fear you are right Dawn. Those days are gone. The pledge of allegiance is no longer taught and therefore there is none.

Along with it we've lost the old patriotic songs of my childhood. It's now another lost and perverted concept more of a divide than a pride.

        My Country, 'Tis of Thee
   (Written by Samuel Francis Smith)

         My country, 'tis of thee,
         Sweet land of liberty,
         Of thee I sing;
         Land where my fathers died,
         Land of the pilgrims' pride,
         From ev'ry mountainside
         Let freedom ring!

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April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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Deborah

Quote from: DawnOday on September 10, 2017, 03:16:30 PM
Ignorance should not be the new normal. I pledged allegiance to a flag that represented equality and then the people that give that flag meaning took a right turn.
I have to disagree with that.  Those people did not take a right turn.  Everyone else took a left turn and now the ones left behind are in a reactionary panic mode.  The right way though is probably not with the ones that turned left nor with the ones that remained in place.  The right path is somewhere in between.  Neither right nor left today has a monopoly on virtue.
Love is not obedience, conformity, or submission. It is a counterfeit love that is contingent upon authority, punishment, or reward. True love is respect and admiration, compassion and kindness, freely given by a healthy, unafraid human being....  - Dan Barker

U.S. Army Retired
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Christine1

Race and gender will always be an issue! You dying out without focusing the next gen will be meaningless. It's sorry that some wish for other older generations death. Sad!


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SailorMars1994

Gasp! omg, how can this be? its almost as though the school is trying to educate their students with knowledge about society :O!!!!! who do these teachers think they are teaching kids?
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Dee Marshall

Quote from: Laurie on September 10, 2017, 12:53:17 PM
The sooner the kids are taught and open their minds to  gender spectrums, the sooner the prejudices of their parents will die out. We need more of this education, not less.

Hugs,
   Laurie
Your first sentence is exactly the argument I've seen parents use AGAINST teaching it.

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April 22, 2015, the day of my first face to face pass in gender neutral clothes and no makeup. It may be months to the next one, but I'm good with that!

Being transgender is just a phase. It hardly ever starts before conception and always ends promptly at death.

They say the light at the end of the tunnel is an oncoming train. I say, climb aboard!

Think outside the voice box!

April 22, 2015, the day of my first face to face pass in gender neutral clothes and no makeup. It may be months to the next one, but I'm good with that!

Being transgender is just a phase. It hardly ever starts before conception and always ends promptly at death.

They say the light at the end of the tunnel is an oncoming train. I say, climb aboard!
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DawnOday

Quote from: Deborah on September 10, 2017, 03:50:59 PM
I have to disagree with that.  Those people did not take a right turn.  Everyone else took a left turn and now the ones left behind are in a reactionary panic mode.  The right way though is probably not with the ones that turned left nor with the ones that remained in place.  The right path is somewhere in between.  Neither right nor left today has a monopoly on virtue.

Right voted for Trump. Right wing is setting about taking peoples hard won rights away. I know the right has been on this path since Nixon. Left is for diversity, equality, LGBTQ, minorities. The right has swerved from it's Christian beliefs that all men are created equal. The left has not abandoned it's religious belief in favor of Charlatans and greed. Love thy neighbor as thyself,comes to mind. The right has taken up Nationalism. Left promotes diversity, job creation, workers rights, unions, tax reform that lowers the middle class tax burden and distributes it more fairly. Left is looking to keep the earth functioning right is looking for armageddon. So just where is the middle? I will not give up my liberal identity to promote hate groups, religious zealots as this was not the intent of the Founding Fathers.
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SailorMars1994

Quote from: Dee Marshall on September 10, 2017, 04:59:48 PM
Your first sentence is exactly the argument I've seen parents use AGAINST teaching it.



Yup, and the reason being is because those type of parents create off spring for the purpose of creating, as Dr Evil would say ''mini-mes'' They want their children not to devaite or think on their own but rather do, look, talk and act they way they wish. So if a AMAB acts noticeably feminine or even if a AFAB acts too boy like then the clamps go down. They need to conform in their minds.

It sometimes isnt just LGBT related, I knew a girl back during my self discovery and eventual coming out time (2013-2014) .She year my junior and  who's father (who by her own admission was a hard core homophobe and even racist) would dictate what she will be doing at college and I believe she told me a story her father even wanted to buy her a cell phone, her first I do believe for her when she leaves Petawawa to go to College (or University) in North Bay Ontario but with a catch, that catch being that the phone has a GPS tracker so he knows that she will be in North Bay all the time and not going down to Toronto or some other place to party. She was 19 at the time and yes, I do believe they were an evangelical family. But it goes to show how much many parents dont want their kids to discover their own selves but rather, be subservient and be a drone. Quite sad actually.
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SailorMars1994

Quote from: DawnOday on September 10, 2017, 05:08:33 PM


Right voted for Trump. Right wing is setting about taking peoples hard won rights away. I know the right has been on this path since Nixon. Left is for diversity, equality, LGBTQ, minorities. The right has swerved from it's Christian beliefs that all men are created equal. The left has not abandoned it's religious belief in favor of Charlatans and greed. Love thy neighbor as thyself,comes to mind. The right has taken up Nationalism. Left promotes diversity, job creation, workers rights, unions, tax reform that lowers the middle class tax burden and distributes it more fairly. Left is looking to keep the earth functioning right is looking for armageddon. So just where is the middle? I will not give up my liberal identity to promote hate groups, religious zealots as this was not the intent of the Founding Fathers.

Hey, Gerald Ford really wasnt all that bad ;)
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Laurie

  I, as you all know, feel as strongly about these issues as anyone else. It has caused some problems within my own family.
This topic especially can be provoking and because of that I would hope all of us can  re-read what we are about to post on it keeping in mind that we can discuss these things without stepping over the line. It's not about the religious or the divides of politics. It's about our children and our hopes for a better world someday.

Hugs,
  Laurie
April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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rmaddy

Quote from: Laurie on September 10, 2017, 03:35:36 PM
I fear you are right Dawn. Those days are gone. The pledge of allegiance is no longer taught and therefore there is none.

Along with it we've lost the old patriotic songs of my childhood. It's now another lost and perverted concept more of a divide than a pride.

        My Country, 'Tis of Thee   GOD SAVE THE QUEEN...

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Laurie

Tut tut rmaddy, The story is about an American school in California. That song is a good one too though.

Hugs,
   Laurie
April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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Lady Sarah

Quote from: SailorMars1994 on September 10, 2017, 05:25:56 PM
Yup, and the reason being is because those type of parents create off spring for the purpose of creating, as Dr Evil would say ''mini-mes'' They want their children not to devaite or think on their own but rather do, look, talk and act they way they wish. So if a AMAB acts noticeably feminine or even if a AFAB acts too boy like then the clamps go down. They need to conform in their minds.

It sometimes isnt just LGBT related, I knew a girl back during my self discovery and eventual coming out time (2013-2014) .She year my junior and  who's father (who by her own admission was a hard core homophobe and even racist) would dictate what she will be doing at college and I believe she told me a story her father even wanted to buy her a cell phone, her first I do believe for her when she leaves Petawawa to go to College (or University) in North Bay Ontario but with a catch, that catch being that the phone has a GPS tracker so he knows that she will be in North Bay all the time and not going down to Toronto or some other place to party. She was 19 at the time and yes, I do believe they were an evangelical family. But it goes to show how much many parents dont want their kids to discover their own selves but rather, be subservient and be a drone. Quite sad actually.

That would depend on what type of people the parents are. I am aware of some that are open minded, and teach their children to think on their own, and not be haters. I also know of some that teach their children to be bigots before they are even old enough to attend school.
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DawnOday

Quote from: SailorMars1994 on September 10, 2017, 05:27:03 PM
Hey, Gerald Ford really wasnt all that bad ;)
I don't know if 12% - 16% interest rates are all that good. Nor a slogan of WIN Wip Inflation Now.

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First revelation - 1982 to my present wife
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