(long post warning, question at bottom)
Hello Susan's place, it has been a long time.
I met a girl.
Anyway, I don't know how long this is going to take. But I met a girl when I was homeless, I went to a Youth LGBT Center (I'm an adult now) and eventually I clicked with her. She used to snuggle with me on a couch. She acted like a kitten (if people get what I mean) and to this day I remember every moment we had together. We were not official, how could we be? Anyway, she had a job, and I had nothing, I slept in a shelter. Yet, No one in the entire world had made me happier than when I was with her.
But life wouldn't let me have my way, and after a traumatic event, I had to leave the city i resided in, without telling her. I figured when I'm away I can join the military as she had tried to do before, and see if I can get a decent paycheck so I can can come back one day to continue the relationship, and have so sort of privacy.
As idealistic as it is, I am back to my non-accepting family home (temporarily) I have a lot of time to research.
(Here is the actual question)
Since I have some spare time, I mean, how do you love a T girl? Of course, I am one as well, but like it's weird on the outside looking into a girl's heart. I mean, I know what I might want, but how do I make her happy? How do I make her day? What would make you happy if you met another trans* person and they tried to love you? What are some things that will make a girl blush? One day, she came in a very pretty Spanish-looking dress, and I couldn't help but tell her how pretty it was, like every 10 minutes! While we were sitting on the couch together, I'm not used to human interaction, so what should I have done? Should I have played with their hair?
For pronouns, should I kinda stick to traditional compliments "You're such a cutie" and things like that? What about gender roles?
I want to make her feel special, and she is very unique, and she deserves to be treated like the Princess she is! What are some pretty flowers besides red roses?
Hopefully this conversation is light and happy. Call me naive, but I want to be very romantic when I return one day. Even if she taken by then, at least I would how to love; perhaps, even be loved.
So Susans Place, I want to know your thoughts? How would you love someone, and more importantly, how would you want to be loved?
