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Started by BarryA, October 09, 2017, 05:47:55 PM

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BarryA

Hello everybody. I'm a ftm 25-year-old. I always knew about my gender identity, but didn't accept it until I was 24. I'm out to only my friends and mother (who didn't took it well). I hope we can be friends, see you!
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Dena

Welcome to Susan's Place. I think that you will find the site a very usefully place to be a member and the member helpful and friendly. Feel free to ask any questions you have as the transition is difficult but with the proper information, you can progress at a speed that's comfortable for you. If I can be of help, just let me know.

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V M

Hi Barry  :icon_wave:

Welcome to Susan's Place  :)  Glad to have you here, join on in the fun

Hugs

V M
The main things to remember in life are Love, Kindness, Understanding and Respect - Always make forward progress

Superficial fanny kissing friends are a dime a dozen, a TRUE FRIEND however is PRICELESS


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Roll

Hi Barry! I saw your thread about coming out, and just wanted to drop in here and say hi. I don't have any personal experience to draw from yet to offer you advice on your mother, so won't presume to, but I will say that there are many here who have spoken about very similar issues. Hopefully you will find the same compassion and guidance I have from this forum. :)
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8/30/17 - First Therapy! The road begins in earnest.
10/20/17 - First coming out (to my father)!
12/16/17 - BEGAN HRT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
5/21/18 - FIRST DAY OUT AS ME!!!!!!!!!
6/08/18 - 2,250 Hair Grafts
6/23/18 - FIRST PRIDE!
8/06/18 - 100%, completely out!
9/08/18 - I'M IN LOVE!!!!
2/27/19 - Name Change!

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Bari Jo

Greetings from one Bari to another.  It might take time with parents.  If she sees how much happier you are perhaps she will come around.

BTW, it is very disconcerting to see my boy name in print here.  Then I think, that's not me, that's somebody else, Yay!

Bari Jo
you know how far the universe extends outward? i think i go inside just as deep.

10/11/18 - out to the whole world.  100% friends and family support.
11/6/17 - came out to sister, best day of my life
9/5/17 - formal diagnosis and stopping DIY in favor if prescribed HRT
6/18/17 - decided to stop fighting the trans beast, back on DIY.
Too many ups and downs, DIY, purges of self inbetween dates.
Age 10 - suppression and denial began
Age 8 - knew I was different
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BarryA

Thanks everybody for your welcome! I already love this place and think y'all are amazing
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Kendra

Hello Barry, welcome!

I am MtF, started questioning my gender identity in the 1970s and waited a loooong time before doing what I needed to do.  I wish I had figured things out earlier.  If a resource like this had been available back then I would have experienced many things sooner.  Transition has worked really well for me so far. 

Great to see you here!

Kendra
Assigned male at birth 1963.  Decided I wanted to be a girl in 1971.  Laser 2014-16, electrolysis 2015-17, HRT 7/2017, GCS 1/2018, VFS 3/2018, FFS 5/2018, Labiaplasty & BA 7/2018. 
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BarryA

Thanks for your welcome Kendra! It's good to know that everything is well for you now
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