Facial hair removal, first and foremost. This will take a good couple of years. Plan on $10k to $20k just for this. Most will be electrolysis, as laser won't take out the white beard hairs and may convert a fair number of the dark ones to light ones as well.
As far as FFS goes, I tend to recommend doing it all. Just get rid of all the dysphoric tells. For you, priority should be on forehead, orbits, and nose. Then, an upper lip lift and trachea shave. But given all that, you might as well do chin and jaw remodeling as well. Prices range from $20k to $60k, depending on the surgeon and country. Add another $5k to $10k if a face lift is in order. Wait on hair transplants until after FFS, both to take advantage of any HRT gains and so that you can use the transplants to camouflage any scars.
All of this is no good without retraining your voice. That too can take 6 to 12 months, but you've got time because of electrolysis. Practice, experiment, and practice!
