I agree with Elis, you actually look really good for pre-T but the hair does look a little feminine. Try going for a shorter cut, look at what the 'in' style for guys is right now. A fade all around is pretty generic and seems like it's suit you and then just more off the top and style it in a quiff or back so it's not in your face? Play around with styles, remember hair grows quickly, don't get too hung up if you get it cut and don't like it, in a months time it will have grown back out.