bear in mind that if people see you as female, they will likely pick what makes you look more feminine if you ask them what looks best on you. it's up to you, but if i were in your shoes, i wouldn't ask what people like more. i would only ask what looks more masculine/feminine, if i asked anything at all, and decide for myself what suited me better. people will view you through their own lenses based on a number of factors, and what gender they perceive you as is one of them.