I've only come out to a few, I was worried about the larger group not understanding but had a good talk with ( and came out to ) a great cycling mate who happens to be a physiologist he told me, they may notice stuff( hopefully 😀) they may say stuff but it doesn't matter. The point being I may say hello to those guys, share a massive table at the cafe but that's it, they don't have to understand they're not real friends. His thoughts were that my real friends would be just fine and of the few I've now told this seems to be the case , In fact it's been amazing so far, my dad was good too ( that was a scary one) obviously be careful who you tell if not out but you maybe surprised. I don't think my friends would worry too much about sharing a room, bed maybe 😂.