We made it to my 1st therapist session yesterday. Very nice lady, definitely familiar and unafraid to touch on the subjects. I was worried when I found out that her office was at a church and held to 'christian' views that she might be uptight, condescending, or leaning toward the 'it's wrong' theory. That was not the case at all
Note: I don't have any issue with true Christians, I'm married to one, I do have issues with self-proclaiming posers that only push their own agenda ... but, enough of that ...
6 lbs of paperwork before we started (off the clock). Makes sense. It gives them some ammo to sift through and get things rolling. The questions all followed the 'get to know';'where do you stand'. Nothing surprised me. I was very comfortable with myself and my presentation. OH! presentation. I got to wear one of my new going-out outfits .. I totally rocked it, I felt GREAT! I could tell my wife liked it as well, not by what she said but in the way she looked at me. Which made me feel even better. To dress up as I like, go into public, and not have her be embarrassed by me .. big plus.
I honestly think I impressed the therapist with my outfit and comfort level wearing it. I knew there was no way I was going to my 1st session in male mode, nope, wasn't happening.
we touched on everything from the physical to the emotional to peer opinions. A very good all around start.
Maybe I was too comfortable. By the time we were half-way through talking, she started concentrating on my wife's responses and answers. I know my wife accepts, I know she loves me, but any talk of physical changes makes her uncomfortable. To be fair, any talk of anything sexual or dealing with genitals makes her uncomfortable. She was raised very strict and that's all private stuff. So, I don't think it was me specifically, just the topic in general.
The therapist covered work, what I wore (scribble note, scribble note, scribble .. therapists love to write). No, I don't dress this way at work. No, only the shirts are mens. Yes, I've been wearing makeup at work. How do people respond .. you get the drill ... OH! and
YES, it's my real hair. I wear it this way all the time
psst, several places in the questionnaire had male/female check boxes ... I drew a line through the whole thing .. she noticed.
that's all I can put thought to right now. Anyone with curiosity questions or comments, fire away.