don't worry about it Moni, I have a net-shredder.
Who's left to tell. Well, let's see, my side. I have one brother to make sure of, one sister that can learn via the grapevine. One other brother that's out of state that may never know. My Wife's side, all of them
they all get to learn the long way, we are not going to make a point of telling them.
Only 2 friends that we are worried about. They are married. Considering how she handled someone they knew marrying a long-time GF (lesbian couple), well, it doesn't bode well. It is very likely that we'll lose them as friends and they'll just be acquaintances. Other people ... don't care. They learn or not, accept or not, doesn't matter.
Third therapy session today, as a couple. It went rather well. We didn't know what to bring up since we talk and work things out together. So, I told the therapist, "you must have some questions and points that you want to bring up, lead away" So she did. It did lead to some things we hadn't covered. Made me remember some things that showed pre-teen and into teen that I was already 'this way'. (I don't mean that negatively, obviously). It also showed that as late as mid-teens I was leaning and then buried it due to guilt? embarrassment? Doesn't matter now.
Weight made it to 166 lbs for 2 days. I'm back up to 170. It should be easy to drop it again and make it permanent. Weight tends to fluctuate a bit before settling down. I've at least broken that sticky weight point finally.
miracle moment.As we were leaving I needed the restroom. The therapist directed me to the ladies room .. no, sillies, that's not the miracle. As I was washing up I saw
ME in the mirror. Me, Myself, I, Faith, was standing there. That's the first time in a long time that I've seen myself full-length in a mirror and didn't hate what I saw.
No tears but my heart beat faster along with getting all warm & fuzzy. I'm still floating on that one.