Quoteif Lori wants to direct the conversation, her choice should be respected.
fyi, so far she just answers, adjusting details based on the person, and says she doesn't mind. I feel better with the insurance of a note that she can use to escape if necessary.
update.
No news from PP (I know, impatient, what can I say ... I'm ready ...). I had planned some retail shopping with Lori last night, not to buy so I guess retail window-shopping? I generally get home first. I get home and .... 5 yr old granddaughter running around. My son had to go get her from school because her parents were working. Since no one was home, she came to our house.
needless to say, that threw a curve into my plans. My granddaughter is really great, a holy terror, but great. too smart for her own good, and mine. Anyway, I walk in and the first thing she says?, "You look silly" (wearing my all pink). I'm like, "What? You don't like pink?" her favorite, of course.
I'm catching up a bit on my computer a few minutes later and she comes in and says, "You're wearing makeup on your eyes!" .. why, yes I am ... kids, sheesh ...
I went overboard on dinner, ate too much. The topper was the toaster waffles and Canadian light maple syrup. mmm, yummy, downside: sugar headache .. ARRGGHH .. it lasted the rest of the evening, I can still feel it lingering today.
As we, Lori and I, are taking her home .. a text. No rush, we're not home yet. *shoot* Alright, lets window shop a bit at Bealls Outlet. Let me tell you, there is nothing fun about wandering a clothing store with a piercing headache and a wound-up 5 yr old. I really wanted to find some new slacks, no way was I messing with fitting rooms and the trail/error process. Some other day. I did find some shoes, however.
As we pick up different items, I'll grab one and she'll go, "That's too girly" or Lori grabs one and she'll go, "That's for boys". She has a very specific idea of girls wear and boys wear. It has to be inherit because I know for a fact that there is nothing in my daughters family that teaches gender-specific dress codes. Maybe it's school, schools love to pigeon-hole people and teach stereotypes.
That leads up to my progress for the day: I am sitting here at my desk at work for the first time ever wearing open toed footwear and painted toenails. for the curious:
(no, the pinky toes aren't squished - they're twisted. An odd genetic trait in our family)
I picked up a more dressy pair to wear on the 14th when I dress up specifically for Valentines Day ..
FOR THE FIRST TIME EVER ...WOOO .. I'm excited. Such a simple thing but I spent my life avoiding any sort of dress-up.
Now to get the nerve up to walk around. It'll happen, something always comes up that requires me moving from my desk.
That's all for now.