Thanks Kathy, Tia Anne.
I guess I'm just impatient. I'm actually OK with the bust. I can look down and see breasts. That, more than anything, helps my dysphoria calm down. My disappointment comes from waist to hip/butt. To see myself as I envision, I need more butt. Putting weight on in the right place is a roll of the dice. I doubt my waist will get any smaller (due to lower rib cage). I haven't had a 30" waist since my late teens. And, compared to my chest, it could but doesn't really need to be any smaller.
I do measurement charts and they place me at 'rectangular or banana' (¿banana?). I look in the mirror and see a big V. I look at pictures from the back and I see the same thing. My wife makes comments from behind me that she can see the shape just fine ... I'm so confused ......
Work today thus far.
* One dead-name and gender from someone in my dept. who didn't get the memo ... corrected that.
* One dead-name and gender from someone in a different dept who, really, couldn't know. I received a pat and a hug from the gal next to me (who does know) when she heard it. Granted, I did say 'not him, please' under my breath a few times that she overheard .. thus the hug. Once informed, that same gal used the right name 10 mins later to get my attention on something.
* Popped my head in on the manager that sent the email (posted above) to say how much I appreciated it. He looked up and called me Faith with no hesitation at all before I even got a word out.
Couple other Faith's in casual conversation.
The gal that got it wrong, now corrected, I swung by a little later to drop my letter on her desk. Told her to read it and pass it around to anyone who was interested? Should know? Whatever, all I know is that it got passed around to all the gals in that department
.. which, by the way, led to a stuck out tongue, a compliment on the letter, and another hug.
All in all, work is smooth. I'm sure that there'll have to be a few more reminders, I've worked here as '
him' for a long time.
When the time comes, I don't think I'll have any home issues on legal name change. Which I have no intention of doing until I do gender at the same time. I am not going through that twice.
That's all for now, thanks for reading.
Faith