wow, so much more to reply to, I don't know what to say.
Quote from: Susan Baum on October 05, 2018, 01:29:24 PM
Dear Faith,
As Danielle and others have said, we are our own worst critics - and if I were to suddenly decide to compare my mirror image to that of those barely legal models and "stars" that currently grace social media and pop culture, I would probably commit sewer-pipes.
The fact is, I am happy to be a lady of a certain age and if "he" sometimes peeks back at me as I do my eyeliner (as happens every now and then) I power back asking myself if I would rather be shaving.
Now about this... Lori likes it too, she's threatening to steal wants to borrow it.
My bride and I swapped or blatantly stole each others clothes all the time. Since I didn't have the opportunity to swap clothes with my friends as a growing girl, I made up for it later. (Gotta say it was a kick to see my sister swap some of my hand-me-downs with some of her friends; would they have done so had they known?)
Susan
Susan, hello again. I still shave every day
.. someday though ... I really don't critique individual features of mine (other than my nose which is a lot bigger than it used to be). If I do a glimpse or peripheral vision glance, I'm Ok. Looking dead on, I'm OK for a short time, then I fall apart. I can't place what's doing it, it's something overall.
Quote from: SarahFehrman on October 05, 2018, 01:47:33 PM
Faith, you're beautiful! You've come such a long way. You inspire me, like so many other ladies in here do. Be happy - feel it, sweetie!
Hugs,
Sarah From Chitown
Sarah
Thank you, thank you , thank you. I teared up. Here you are, someone I haven't associated with (seen a few posts of yours though), posting comments like that, I'm .. I don't know what I am .. amazed? crap, I have no words. Me? Inspire? I seem to hear that a lot. I don't know how, I'm just trying to be me. I see so many beautiful women on here, I don't place myself among them.
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!JAYNE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!You came down off of your cloud 9 to mingle with us normal folk, how gracious
I don't think it's mirror vs picture flip that getting to me, I think it's my face *sigh* I don't have any problem looking at my hair
I do bounce back much easier it seems. It's only been a few weeks, could be a chasm up ahead.
I give up .. so many feelings flipping around in my head, I can't put words down.
I really appreciate all of your uplifting comments
hugs to all
Faith
psst
see that Jayne? I hug more than I used to ... and not just on the forums