Using mascara every day has helped my eyelashes grow slightly. Use water proof mascara. Even with small eyelashes you can put on mascara. This takes a lot of patience and practice, but you can master it after a while. Eye liner is also your friend. You might try false eyelashes, but they are a pain to get on right. If you have a few pounds to lose, weight loss can help a little with hands and feet. You might be able to drop a half size down in shoes. Growing your finger nails a little longer, not too long, keeping them manicured and using a clear nail polish can help create the illusion of more feminine hands. This has been my experience. Every little bit helps. It's all about the details.