Feeling really discouraged

[Ashley_wolf]

So I Finally told my wife after over a year of tossing around the idea to transition that I wanted to actually persue it. So I'm a prior Marine and have always been the badass wherever I go. I don't mind being a man but every time I look at a girl or I'm alone all I can think about is the body I want to have for me! I'm going to go to the VA this week and start the process with my medical team. But I decided to ask questions in another group and all they did was bash on me and really made me feel like ->-bleeped-<-. I have been cross dressing with really big breast forms and I know its not common but I like the look and feeling of F cup to G cup. Why is it that I ask questions like advice on social interactions and then I'm completely ridiculed and shamed? I just want friends to be there for me

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[Megan.]

I experimented years ago with very large forms. I was very big (obesely overweight),  so I figured it would be proportional,  and I also wanted to feel the weight. I'd never had a partner,  so I had great deal of curiosity about them.
Now fit and healthy,  I'd really not like anything more than a decent B cup,  it would mess with my sports too much!
For countless reasons,  the body we'd like is an individual thing. The great thing about breastforms is that we can try different sizes,  something cis-women don't get (short of surgery).
Social interactions are a very important thing in learning the female dynamic. I think you're being wise to seek these out,  and hopefully find some here too. X

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[MaryT]

I don't know who, or what kind of people, are ridiculing you.  I don't think that it will happen on Susan's Place.

[Charlie Nicki]

Wait, people are shaming you for wanting big breasts? Wow. That's awful. You shouldn't be in contact with that group if that's the case. I believe the beauty of transition is that we get to build our identity and gender expression the way we want to. There is no right or wrong.

[Kendra]

Don't waste any of your time with a bad group, or bad acquaintances for that matter. 
There are many great people in the world and limited hours in a day.

Be proud of who you are, and for taking the initiative to seek long term happiness. 

[Ashley_wolf]

Wait, people are shaming you for wanting big breasts? Wow. That's awful. You shouldn't be in contact with that group if that's the case. I believe the beauty of transition is that we get to build our identity and gender expression the way we want to. There is no right or wrong.

This is my goal and I was being bashed because "you just want to look like a slut" as they would say. Since I have been banned and can't get on the page. Why is it when I have a goal for how I want to look I'm bashed for it. So what if I get looking the way I want then people will just think I'm a slut? Thats <not allowed>

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[Charlie Nicki]

This is my goal and I was being bashed because "you just want to look like a slut" as they would say. Since I have been banned and can't get on the page. Why is it when I have a goal for how I want to look I'm bashed for it. So what if I get looking the way I want then people will just think I'm a slut? Thats <not allowed>

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Being happy with your decision is all that matters.


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[amandam]

Heck, most women want to be that hot. 

[Ashley_wolf]

Great news! went to the VA today and finally started the ball rolling. Going in next week to start talking about medication. I'm so excited! I'm not going to hide it either I'm super excited to have my own real boobs!

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[amandam]

That's good news. Bear in mind, real breasts that big will be real heavy and can cause lots of back pain over time. You may find yourself ratcheting back on the size before you actually do it. Nothing wrong with some D's.

[Ashley_wolf]

That's good news. Bear in mind, real breasts that big will be real heavy and can cause lots of back pain over time. You may find yourself ratcheting back on the size before you actually do it. Nothing wrong with some D's.

I realized. But I'm willing to endure it as I know back pain really well

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