Quote from: DawnOday on November 27, 2017, 12:11:35 PM
I hate cold days as my nipples get very sensitive and brushing against my blouse is very painful. So, yes it's time to buckle up. I just got a front loader because it is impossible to snap the back.
Put it on backwards and then pull it around or that is what I do when I wear a bra.
I don't though. Wear a bra that is. I know, horrible of me right?
I think it was 8 months on hrt when I could not possibly hide them anymore but I could not find a bra that fit. Too big around with too small a cup size. Even sports bras fit miserably. I could get them made but I had very little money and it was more comfortable to go without.
Cut to 2 plus years later I am smaller around have a bigger cup size and I have more than one bra that fits. I still do not wear them though.
So I am a comfortable b cup maybe closer to c by now, not too big and they are firm. No pain going up or down stairs and I don't run. They are well shaped with a largish and puffy areola. Here is the thing, even if I really wanted to wear a bra I still might not. I don't at all so I won't. Well, not entirely true, something a little more official, like when I went to court to get my name changed, I will wear one.
It began to irritate me more and more how much crap my friends gave me. Even my best friend who shows more than an acre of cleavage every day. More than 99% of the women who have ever lived did NOT wear a bra. In the 1970s none of my aunts did and in the early 1990s in Germany very few of my friends did. What happened? When I ask they say,"I don't want my man checking out your boobs." Your man is looking, not a guess a fact, if not at me then at someone else. Like my man is checking out your bongos right now. SO WHAT?!?!
I do not look or dress trashy unlike my one friend who loves to wear leopard print yoga pants when she goes to the store and literally climbed her son's best friend and wrapped her arms and legs around him at the end of her grandson's birthday party. I know that sounds judgemental, maybe is a little, but I love her to death and we have soooo much fun. Just, how is it she is calling me slutty because I don't wear a bra?
All of my friends are girls, great that really works for me, but to me it seems to that they are so much more judgemental than men. It gets tiring.
The girl that does my nails rounds them instead of making them square or pointy. Really? That bothers you?
I can't believe you came out without putting on makeup.
White skirt in January? You are brave. It's full length and layered, it sure as hell wasn't made for July!
It's okay that you bought food instead of making for our picnic, you are busy I guess. 3 jobs and a boyman for a boyfriend? Yeah, you could say that I am a little busy.
I love my life and my friends. I just never thought that I would miss the laid back and straightforward approach men have to their friendships.
Anyway, I don't wear a bra and most of the time no one notices. Sometimes men drool, and more rarely a woman. Nowhere near as much as at my friend who does wear a bra and shows most of her giant boobs though. But don't go by me. My nieces could not wait to wear a bra, it is a cherished passage into womanhood. When you want to is the only answer that I can give.
