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Transitioned a little later than most

Started by BreeMostly, November 29, 2017, 09:14:59 PM

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BreeMostly

Hi all - I just joined the site.  I've been teetering between m and f for several years, keeping my male side for work and some friends and being female presenting for newer friends and weekends and socializing.  Early in the summer I decided to come out at work and it has made all the difference as I'm now able to just be me all the time.  I'm out to family, most of my friends, work, and pretty much all of my social circles.  So now I'm going to catch up with hrt.  I've held off not knowing if that was the right thing, but now I know I need to bring my body along to match where I've already gone emotionally and externally.

So, fill me in with your experiences of hrt later in life (I'm 57, though I dare you to guess it looking at me lol).

Cheers,

Bree
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Jessica_Rose

Welcome to Susan's Place. A moderator will be along soon to provide an official welcome...

I am also a late bloomer. I am 55 and started HRT in late March. I am only out to a few people, but that will be changing soon.

So far the my biggest changes include:
   - My anger issue which I have battle for over 40 years is gone.
   - I am overall much calmer.
   - I have lost about 30 pounds.
   - I can experience emotions again, and they are awesome!
   - Body hair is slowing disappearing.
   - Two other little things, my breasts are growing!
Journal thread - Jessica's Rose Garden
National Coming Out Day video - Coming Out
GCS - GCS and BA w/Dr. Ley
GCS II - GCS II and FFS w/Dr. Ley
FFS II - Jaw and chin surgery w/Dr. Ley
Hair - Hair Restoration
23Mar2017 - HRT / 16Feb2018 - Full Time! / 21Feb2019 - GCS / 26July2019 - GCS II / 13Oct2020 - FFS II
"It is never too late to be what you might have been." - George Eliot
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V M

Hi Bree  :icon_wave:

Welcome to Susan's Place  :)  Glad to have you here, join on in the fun

I'm 56, began actively transitioning in my 40's

Here are some links to the site rules and stuff that we offer to all new members to help them along



Things that you should read





Hugs

V M
The main things to remember in life are Love, Kindness, Understanding and Respect - Always make forward progress

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- V M
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tgirlamg

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Welcome aboard Bree!!!... You are starting a journey best made with friends by your side and you are amongst them here!!! ... I started 4 years ago at age 52 and life has never been better

Many of us here started around the half century mark!.. Mid life crisis?... Nope!! Just a point in life for assessing if things are as they should be and making the necessary adjustments!!!
Amazing things await you!!!


Onward we go brave sister!!!

Ashley 😀💗🌻
"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment" ... Ralph Waldo Emerson 🌸

"The individual has always had to struggle from being overwhelmed by the tribe... But, no price is too high for the privilege of owning yourself" ... Rudyard Kipling 🌸

Let go of the things that no longer serve you... Let go of the pretense of the false persona, it is not you... Let go of the armor that you have worn for a lifetime, to serve the expectations of others and, to protect the woman inside... She needs protection no longer.... She is tired of hiding and more courageous than you know... Let her prove that to you....Let her step out of the dark and feel the light upon her face.... amg🌸

Ashley's Corner: https://www.susans.org/index.php/topic,247549.0.html 🌻
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Jessica

Quote from: BreeMostly on November 29, 2017, 09:14:59 PM
Hi all - I just joined the site.  I've been teetering between m and f for several years, keeping my male side for work and some friends and being female presenting for newer friends and weekends and socializing.  Early in the summer I decided to come out at work and it has made all the difference as I'm now able to just be me all the time.  I'm out to family, most of my friends, work, and pretty much all of my social circles.  So now I'm going to catch up with hrt.  I've held off not knowing if that was the right thing, but now I know I need to bring my body along to match where I've already gone emotionally and externally.

So, fill me in with your experiences of hrt later in life (I'm 57, though I dare you to guess it looking at me lol).

Cheers,

Bree

Welcome to Susan's Bree! 🙋 I started 5 months ago at age 61.  Definitely feel the changes, mentally and slowly physically.  Got boobs growing and I'm far calmer in general.  Better late than never!
Smiles, Jessica 💁

"If you go out looking for friends, you are going to find they are very scarce.  If you go out to be a friend, you'll find them everywhere."


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Angela49

Hi Bree, I started hrt 6 months ago at age 49. Only out to a few people at this point but that will be changing soon. So far the changes have been slow but steady and even though I have lost my wife of 23 years I am a much happier person.
Enjoy the ride!
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Laurie

Alright I'll claim the oldest responder in this thread so far. I'm 65 and have been on HRT for almost a year. I went full time 6 months ago.

Laurie
April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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Dani

I started HRT at age 65 and had GCS at 66. I am now age 68 and 22 months post op.

I am so thankful that I have no cardiac problems.

Better late than never.
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Katie Ellen

Welcome Bree. I'm new here too. I think a lot of us look younger as female. Maybe it's the nice hair and make, but it's OK by me.

Oh by the way, I'm 67 and just starting. It's never too late.
Raegan
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KathyLauren

Welcome, Bree.  I'm not to far behind old Laurie and Dani, at 63.  I started transitioning about a year ago.  I have had my ID rejected not because the name didn't match my presentation, but because I didn't look my actual age.   ;D
2015-07-04 Awakening; 2015-11-15 Out to self; 2016-06-22 Out to wife; 2016-10-27 First time presenting in public; 2017-01-20 Started HRT!!; 2017-04-20 Out publicly; 2017-07-10 Legal name change; 2019-02-15 Approval for GRS; 2019-08-02 Official gender change; 2020-03-11 GRS; 2020-09-17 New birth certificate
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Lis

Hi Bree! I myself have just joined this group, and also a VERY late bloomer :) I am 72, and started my HRT two and a half years ago.
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Lis

Can anyone tell me how to insert a picture of myself???
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tgirlamg

Quote from: Lis on December 13, 2017, 01:33:29 PM
Can anyone tell me how to insert a picture of myself???

Hi Lis!!!... You'll need a post count of 15 before you can post a pic!!!

Hugs!

Ashley 😀💗🌻
"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment" ... Ralph Waldo Emerson 🌸

"The individual has always had to struggle from being overwhelmed by the tribe... But, no price is too high for the privilege of owning yourself" ... Rudyard Kipling 🌸

Let go of the things that no longer serve you... Let go of the pretense of the false persona, it is not you... Let go of the armor that you have worn for a lifetime, to serve the expectations of others and, to protect the woman inside... She needs protection no longer.... She is tired of hiding and more courageous than you know... Let her prove that to you....Let her step out of the dark and feel the light upon her face.... amg🌸

Ashley's Corner: https://www.susans.org/index.php/topic,247549.0.html 🌻
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DawnOday

Bree I have been on HRt for 16 months. I have been receiving voice therapy for 12. I have had approx. 30 electrologist visits. About 10 - 15 more to go. I was once one of the most stressed people on earth. Now I have no stress in comparison. I am about as relaxed as I ever have been. I attend support groups fairly often. I visit the Doctor every 3 months. I don't have an Endo but my Doc is in contact with one. My medical plan has been really supportive. I got a social worker to help with legal matters and referrals. I got a Gender Therapist, a Primary Doctor and a voice coach who has proven to be such a blessing. The real highlight thus far was attending Gender Odyssey last August along with 1700 other Transgender people and their SO's and allies. By the way I am 66 years old.
Dawn Oday

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First indication I was different- 1956 kindergarten
First crossdress - Asked mother to dress me in sisters costumes  Age 7
First revelation - 1982 to my present wife
First time telling the truth in therapy June 15, 2016
Start HRT Aug 2016
First public appearance 5/15/17



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DeniseGrace

Welcome Bree,

Late "bloomer" too. 62 and on HRT about 1 year now.

Better late than never right!

DeniseGrace
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Chloe M

So good to see other late transitioners here. I sometimes get down thinking too late now you're just a burly blog of 47 deal with it. But I do take heart reading other peoples posts of both same age group and older.
Taking my first steps introducing Chloe to the world after much angst and soul searching xx
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Kc1058

Hi Bree-
I'll be 46 in about 10 days and have been in denial for decades( never thought I'd make it to a point where I could measure something in those terms 🤷🏼‍♀️)
You're not alone but you're in good company.
I'll be starting HRT soon (I hope)-
Going to the Dr on Tuesday.

Please make yourself at home.

Christyn


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