What choice do I have? What my wife and daughter want are untenable. I can't live as they want me to. My choice would be to end it because there is no going back. I don't want to hurt them, but I don't want to miserable at best, or dead at worst. The cost is high, I should have done this years ago when I was younger but I did not. If I have to I will strike out on my own. My immediate family will condemn it, my sister will hate it. I'll support the family financially as I can, but at the end of the day this hostility and aggression MUST end. Its at the point I find excuses not to come home and even then communicate as little as possible with anyone save my youngest.
I'll lose the house, my family, but I gain clarity - something I have never had. There is no other path for me but the one I walk. I wish I could choose not to, but I can't because it is me. Always has been, and always will be. I look at pictures of me from 4-5 years ago and see a stranger I no longer wish to know. They want him back. He is gone. He never really existed other than as a mask to keep the world at bay.
However, we are still in the same house, today things are okish.... the day could be far worse! I also bought myself my first skirt today. Promptly discovered I want to lose at least 15 pounds before I wear it anywhere, but, I did that with some other clothes that I wear a lot now and 15 pounds lighter is at most 4 weeks away.
On the bad news front since I keep losing weight a lot of the kamis and other small clothes I purchased are no longer fit for purpose. Jeans are getting too big as well. Losing weight is good and bad at the same time!