Well still at my Mothers place. A few high lights.
My Wife called me She! Yay.
My Mother is struggling and can't bring herself to call me her daughter.. yet. But I think its a matter of time.
I found a Victorian perfume shop at the top of the cable car in Wellington and got some nice perfume today.
Went to my cousins place they are accepting.
The kids had a great time at the Waiuru war museum and Te Papa (NZ national museum)
Most importantly though I had a chat with my wife about the future. Its shaping up together but apart. She accepts the need for us live our lives as we see fit. She accepts (as do I) that as parents we have at least another ten years of working together. So, it looks like we will find a way to live on the same property, but with our own space. This could be adding to the existing one, or selling up and finding a larger house with two levels.
How this affects my Girl friend I'm not sure. I do know that my responsibility to my kids is paramount and trust that if the relationship is meant to be we will find a way. I haven't been stopped yet and the hurdles were far greater.
Life proceeds apace and, as always...
Today is a totally awesome day.